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writes:Me and this girl fell deeply in love with each other around 4 years ago when we first met, since then it has been awesome ride, but the other day she all of a sudden said she doesnt want a relationship, to me this was abit of a shock, i thought it was going all well, she is currently doing her hsc and schooling and stuff, should i just tell her i respect her wishes and give her space? she told me she still wants to meet up and call me everynow and then, and thats fine but i still love her and i dont want to loose her :( over the pass 4 years she has told me she loves me and that i was her soulmate, i remember telling her that id marry her 1 day and she laughed and she said she knows and she wants that, but if im her soulmate etc then why would she go ahead and do this? please your advice would be helpfull :)
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reader, lilgirly  +, writes (31 August 2008):
 maybe she thought she loved you.. or was afraid to lose you.just doesn't wanna be alone..
and now she found someone else...it's really weird! you have to talk to her and ask her why she did that!4 years is a really long time!
maybe she wants some time alone!
good luck XXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2008): Maybe it is all too much too soon for her. Women aren't always stereotypical and maybe she is the one having commitment troubles! Or she might feel as though she wants to play around having perhaps not had that opportunity before. That is what it sounds like to me because she wants to still wants to see you but not be in a relationship. I could be wrong. Ask her what she does want. Are you downgrading to friends, are you still each others soulmates but taking a break?
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reader, ItsEmma  +, writes (31 August 2008):
 Well, it seems pretty clear to me that when she said those things, she was either caught in the moment or lying. I know it's hard, and I sympathize with you, but I think you should respect what she wants and give her space. You can't force someone to love you.
Time heals all wounds.
~Emma
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