A
male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone. I am with my gf for almost 2 years. We are now living far from each other. Sometimes, we meet once a month and sometimes not at all.I miss her a lot that I always wanted to talk to her. Usually, I called when she is not working. She doesn't contact me and always missed my call. The problem is, she never reply the text or call back.I called her once to twice a day if she pick up. If not, I will call from time to time because I know she is not going to call back.At first, we have usual time to talk online to save phone bills. Now, she is not there to talk. I waited for hours, then I called. She will not pick up but some time after, she will come online. It happens so many times.While we talk online, she reply very slow and she will say she has little things to do and she goes offline. Rarely, she will come back and yes I am still waiting for the whole day.Whenever we talk, I feel she is happy to talk to me. I am so confused. I don't know if she still loves me. If she does care about me, why it is always me to look for her? Why she never reply the text or call back? And I even need to keep calling for her to come online to talk.I am stressed and I am afraid that she is playing my mind. Any advice?
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (31 August 2008):
 long distance doesn't work find someone local
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (31 August 2008):
Well firstly you should really arrange times to talk because sitting online all day hoping she will come on is not healthy. Trust me I have been there and done it.
Secondly, I think you just need to ask her why she has become so distant. She may just want some space online if you are always there 24 hours a day.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2008): You should ask her why she never calls you. Maybe she isn't into you as much as you are into her? Could she be feeling disconnected from you because of the distance? Ask her, or better still go and see her and ask in person.
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