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Archived questions from: 26 August, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Someone explain what the hell my mind is doing to me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - For my birthday my gf didn't do as much as I did for her on her bday and I am starting to feel petty. Because for her birthday I did a lot and went that extra mile just to make it special for her. I spent a lot of money I am not rich at all. For my ...

I can't feel when I'm cumming or not.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Carnal knowledge is one of our recreational activities. We're soo active when comes to this. my problem was, I can't feel if I'm coming or not. I just knew that I'm wet. In short, I'm not satisfied. Not with the performance of my boyfrien...

"It's not about the pleasure, it's about the concept..." What does this mean exactly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - My girlfriend uses a wheelchair, but I've never cared cause she's awesome. Usually we just make out, but recently she told me she wants to have sex. Now here's the funny part: her disability leaves her vagina with no sensation. I asked her why she'd ...

I'm a bit worried now that I've been too direct by composing a song for her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - Hello, I posted recently about how to flirt with this girl who I will meet at freshers' week in university. So far we talk only by email, and we have not met. I started being flirty with her and she thanked me and said I was being very swe...

How do I make the best impression when I see her again?

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26 August 2008 (M) - Hello, I posted recently about how to flirt with this girl who I will meet at freshers' week in university. I started being flirty with her and she thanked me and said I was being very sweet. Also, I have given her a "gift" - I came up with an ...

Is he really 'straight' or is he too afraid to be with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - About 6 months back, I met a guy, who was 19 at the time, we started to hang out, and the second time we went somewhere I told him I was gay, which he had no problem with. He was 3 months out of a relationship with his fiance, things just didn't ...

Is this Turkish man trying to con me or is he for real?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I met a Turkish man (A bar owner 20 years younger than me on holiday) He tried it on sexually with me but i told him i do not sleep with some one i do not know. Next day he told me he wanted a future with me and wants me to move to Turkey. He said ...

I don't want my boyfriend to see my "insecure side"! How do I manage that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - So, my boyfrined is my Dad's best friends son. I have known him almost my whole life. He has never lived in the same state as me so we really didnt stay in touch til the older we got. He moved out here this past summer for an internship and we ...

Why do people think relationships should be so easy and give up too quickly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Everyone, I've been here for sometime and I'd like to ask for your opinions on commitment and dedication in a relationship. I was raised in a traditional Eastern European family. Our attitudes towards relationship are: -No matter...

He hasn't initiated a second date, even when I texted him. What's the next step?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I went on a date last Wednesday, that I thought went pretty well. We had lots to talk about, kept each other’s interest, he told me he thought I was ‘gorgeous,’ and when it came time to leave the bar, he asked me if I wanted to do anything else. ...

I'm on the verge of telling him to get lost because he never contacts me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I really like my partner and if we were to split up I would really miss them and be very upset but I am so tired of them never contacting me.. Reply, yes! but actually make contact, sadly no! We live over an hour away so ony get to see each other at ...

Is it more stressful to carry on with an "up and down" relationship than end it? My main concern is my health!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Hi, I have had advice off here before which I found helpful .... My partner of 5 years left me earlier this year in January and also I was unwell at that time ... he was the love of my love and i was desperately unhappy .. I joined an online dat...

He's gone a bit cold after we slept together! Any ideas on why this is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I met this lad on my holiday and we started chatting when we got back to england - he only lives about an hour away and i know the area he lives in because my sister went uni there. So after 3 weeks of constant talking (and i mean constant ... ...

Is my boyfriend up to something? He's acting sneaky.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - i think my boyfriend is up to something, i don't know what, he disappears for no reason.. tells me he has to go the bank.. i don't know.. he gets defensive when i ask him where he's been. i've caught him lying about silly samll things.. plea...

We weren't official and now he has a girlfriend! Could he still like me though?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Okay.. Im 16, i've always been single. I dated this guy for nearly 3months - May, June and a bit of July. He went to my school, so I knew him for a year before that, but I developed feelings for him and he did the say for me. We weren't official, we ...

My family is giving me a hard time about going back to my ex! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Hello, I am 43 years old. Last year I had a massive stroke and have limited mobility though this is improving greatly. When I was discharged from hospital, my then partner and I moved into a bungalow. In May this tear I left him to move in with a ...

Am I fetishizing foreign women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - I am a white male but almost all the girls I date have been black, hispanic, asian, ect. I don't why I just like dating outside my race, but somebody said I was fetishizing foriegn women when I do that. Is it bad to date exclusively outside your ...

Love to be single, but love belonging to someone, too. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - dear cupid, i have a problem, im 18 and im 90% of the time single and am a freshman in college now and i love to be single and go out every weekend and just have an absolute blast and im not really boycrazy (i don't die everytime a hot guy smiles at ...

I cant tell if he is attracted to me or what. I am totally lost when it comes to this guy who happens to be my ex's best friend

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26 August 2008 (?) - I am in love or infatuated with my ex-fiance's best friend who also became my business partner last year. I was in a long term relationship with a man for nine years. We continue to live together as friends for financial reasons. I put him throug...

I lied about my age for 3 years! Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Hey every1...so I kinda have a problem you see I met this guy 3 years ago n I didn't think we would be messin around for this much time but he really likes me and cares the thing is when I met him I told him I was 15 when really im 14 He was 17 at ...

He is going away for about 10 months. Can we be faithful to each other? Are we too young?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Okaii...so here is my situation:I'm 16, and my bf is going to the states for almost a year, to see his family and stuff.He's leaving on the 7th of spetember or so, then coming back in july next year.He told a friend of mine that he's gunna be ...

How do I get my live in boyfriend to start looking for a new place to live for us?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - i live with my boyfriend, and he had asked me to move in with him. i am so tired of the place that we are living and i keep trying to talk to him so we can move. he tells me that he doesnt want to live there either, but he wont do anything about ...

He says he loves me, but then tells me to stay away while. He keeps going back and forth between me and his ex from before me. What is the deal here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 1 1/2 yrs.He is 40 I am 29.I knew him from having our horses at the same farm,never paid any attention to him as we were both in serious relationships when he moved out there. After some time I broke up with my boyfriend ...

I am having trouble being what he wants me to be. Help me before I lose him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - I've been a single mother for 10 yrs.And i've been really hurt in the past from other guys. And now I've been seeing this absolutly wonderful guy for 5 mths.We are currently seperated though.Our current problem is that he wants me to talk more with ...

When I ask about a baby she says she wants to get married first...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - me and my girlfriend are to gether for 6 years i want baby from my girlfriend, my girlfriend told me she wants to have some fun first,in august of 2008 my girlfriend sent her son to ny with his aunt, and her daughter is with aunt,when i ask about ...

Should we break up for a while or should he schedule better and make everyone happy, me and his friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - For the longest time my boyfriend would spend every waking moment with me and not his friends, these days its the other way around. In a way I'm jealous, but I don't think he's spending as much time with me as he should. He plans on going far away ...

Is he interested? Did I over-step boundaries by making the suggestion that we meet? Why does he never call, only emails?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I met a man on personals site at the end of June. We chatted on-lin about every other day for about 6 weeks, then 3 weeks ago we met for coffee. We sat in the restaurant and talked for over 2 hours. When we parted ways, he said he would like to ...

Not sure if I should date him or keep him as my best friend. Not sure I have a choise anymore either. Have I ruined it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - hiya thanks for reading recently i asked about me and my best boy mate and have a ruined it for me and him since i told him i liked him because he was acting strange and more nice to me and the teasing had stopped and i got some good answers ...

I really like him. He's the year above me at school. I really want him to notice me but I don't know how to approach him.

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26 August 2008 (F) - Ok, there's this boy that i've liked for years, he's a year older than me but i don't really know him... at all. In fact the only reason i even know he exsists is because my Mom's a hairdresser and his Mom comes round my house every few weeks to ...

Sex days into the relationship... Did we rush things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this girl for just over 3 weeks now. The first night we spent together was about 2 weeks ago. We had sex, It was so great. and i wasn't depressed or upset that it was her that took my virginity. But we both cuddled for abou...

Is it naive to expect a relationship to blossom after what she's said?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - I've been seeing this girl for 5-6 weeks, meeting for a date every week. She had just come out of a painful breakup a year before. It was going quite well, she's very shy, reciprocating all my texts and kisses. But often not initiating it, I put ...

I'm trying to be as realistic as possible by forgiving her, but I don't want to make the wrong decision.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5735 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - Ive been in a LDR for 3 years. We met when she was 17 and spent a year together in the same country. We loved each other to pieces and would do anything to stay together. She has to go to South America for school. 18 months into the relationship, ...

I definitely can't move past my ex but I want to stay with my g/f, yet I want my ex to be interested again. Can you advise me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - i am currently in a new relationship with a girl who i have known for 4 years. she is very sweet and beautiful and really cares about me. i am currently in love with my year-long ex girlfriend who i know is my soulmate. she is nine days older than...

I discovered I had feelings for her but she met someone else before I could tell her. Is there any hope for us still?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5572 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - I'm sorta at a loss right now. Over a year ago, I was dating a woman who was and probably still is, great. But about a half year later she had complications with her family and was homesick and had to leave back to her home, I was devastated, but ...

How do I get him to talk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5710 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I am actually a kind of person that loves to share. I don't normally do it with everyone but only to ones that are close to me. I talk quite a bit about my family, past, friends etc with my boy friend. He does talk to me about these too but very ...

Why does she keep defending her abusive ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (M) - I have been with the women for a lil over year and it alredy feels like its been for ever. i meen we were friends a bit befor i asked her out. the night i asked her out she said i dont know because t (her x boyfriend) is really good in bed. but then ...

Do I trust him again after he emailed his ex? He indicated an interest in her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend I have been with for a year and 3 months. Recently, we both deleted our "Myspace" accounts, because he (my boyfriend), wrote to another girl (one he has gotten pregnant long before I met him, She had an abortion), and he said to ...

Is love really blind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - is love really blind??? im 18 and just turned eighteen about two weeks ago. im a freshman in college and loving every minute of it. i just got out of a painful relationship with a horrible breakup (he left me for his ex and all i got was a text ...

He didn't meet me as planned and now he's ignoring my calls and texts. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Rightt, wel iv fallen for this boy who has a girlfriend. Hes been wih her a long time and i dont want too break them up because he loves her to bits. but he said that he likes me too. we was talking fora few months and him and his girlfriend were ...

Is my mom's friend acting strange or am I reading into things?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

26 August 2008 (?) - My mom has a guy friend Jeff (not real name) and hes nice and all but something seems strange about him.....when im home alone he'll call and ask what im doing for no reson and he always ask me "is any one there with you?!" then he'll tell/ask "ok ...

Are these signs he's showing signalling interest in me or just sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - The guy that I am seeing right now, he always wants to know about my personal life, like how many brothers and sisters do i have and stuff, and he never says anything about sex, but I was just wondering, he also ask me about my friends, my parents, ...

Do people say what's in their heart while loaded up on alcohol?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Is is true that people tend to speak the truth, and say what's truly in their heart when they are loaded? My b/f seems to have some difficulty being sweet and romantic to me, but when he's loaded he becomes poetic and loving, saying all the things ...

My friends say I'm slowly falling out of love, could this be true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Ok as some of you may already know...I have a boyfriend that i have been with for 2 years.Well I just started high school last week and a boy who i've been attracted 2 since 7th grade is there.I also found out that he likes me and wants 2 go with me ...

Just Another Love Story.

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26 August 2008 (M) - Not A Queston but a love story, its 110% true and Im just putting it out there to show you should never be afraid. 2 1/2 years ago i met the greatet person ever, Her name was Jayme. At the time i was lost and unhappy and a little suicidal. But so...

How can I help my boyfriend overcome hating taking his top off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - well. my boyfriend is paranoid about his top-half. he's told me i'm the only girl (outside his family) to have seen him topless, because he hates it so much. he's had girlfriends before, but always left his top on. i want to go swimming with h...