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writes:Well, my life is a mess right now...Again.First, my boyfriend, who I've been talking about being wonderful, is driving me NUTS. He has only given me a hug, ONCE. Except, like, if I hurt myself, but all my friends do too. But, he doesn't touch me. Once. He doesn't hold my hand. Or kiss my cheek. Or any of that. Sure, "it's too fast for him." I respect that. What I don't get, is why, yesterday, when I touched his hand, he goes "COOTIES!" and pulled away. I'm sorry. First, I didn't reach out and grab your hand. I just put my hand on the table, not even noticing you're hand, until you screamed. So my question is: Should I break up with him, or am I just being stupid?Next, I can't see if this guy likes me or not. I just started middle school. In this game, called "The Name Game" where you toss the ball to other kids. He is from North Carolina, and knows no one. So, I was a little surprised, when he only threw the ball to me, and sometimes, not as much, but to my friend too. And when I was talkin to my friend, he had been smiling at her, when she talked to him. But when ever I talked to anyone in the room, I'd see him smiling at me. Even when I talked to my friend, who I think he might like, but it still is weird...Does he like me more than her? And, how can I find out? He's tall. I have dwarfism. And I don't want to have rumors flying around. Becaue I really like him too. I do. Which, still, confuses me. But, I like another kid too...There's this kid in keyboarding, who sits next to me. We always talk, laughing at how everytime something glitched, it'd automatically get the teacher. Even if she was across the room. We both think she is outrageous and that she needs to cool it. So, we joke around, making jokes about her rules and stuff. And he too threw the ball to me, even though his friends from his old school were there (Our schools had combined for middle school) So, I even see him watching me sometimes, while I play with the computer. I like him A LOT. And I wanna know if he REALLY likes me, or I'm just not understanding it correctly. So how can I do that, without losing our friendship? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (30 August 2008):
Your boyfriend is acting like a little boy. This is probably because he IS a little boy. He is obviously not ready to do boyfriend girlfriend stuff so I think you should go back to being friends.
As for the other guys, just hang out with them, be their friend. If they are interested they will ask you out. If not then you'll have 2 new friends!
Good Luck!! xx
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