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Archived questions from: 29 August, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

What can I do to get the guts to talk to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - Alright I know this question has been asked many times, because I've seen but they aren't what I'm looking for. So I'm going to ask anyway! (I'm a freshman in high school; well in ways I hoped that would make it easier to answer my question) ...

We got off on bad terms but I still have to deal with him because of our mutual friends. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - i dont know what to think!..i dont even know how im suppose to feel..oh wow ok real quick..me and my ex broke up on BAD terms..i tried talking to him the other day and he shouted at me..we had a tiff..ended in him threatening to punch me..so i said ...

He likes me, I like him too, but I don't know how to get into a relationship with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - ok so well i reallly like this guy... we are good friends we always sit together at lunch and class... well rumors went aroudn by his ex that we like eachother... jokes on her cause we do... but how do i turn on the flirting and the charm? and how ...

I'm torn between two guys and I don't know who to choose!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5696 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I have been with a male that we will call ram for just about a year now. We fight we argue and practically tear eachothers heads off. There has been cheating from both sides in the relationship. All of my friends wonder why I am soo crazzy about him ...

This guy at work asked me out but I want noting with him. Should I ask him if he wants to be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Hi. I'm really confused. I'm married and this guy at work asked me out. I've seen him around for the last few years and we talked occasionally. However, I was really surprised that he asked me out. I rejected his advances and then have been avo...

Is it possible to be in love with two people at the same time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - is is possable to be in love with 2 people at the same time? iv been with my boyfriend 2years now and we were best friends years b4, i really think i love him and at the moment i feel like i wont to be with him for ever. But i'm very close to my ot...

My boyfriend acts different with everyone else except me, what can I do to change this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Dear cupid, I am so confused! I started dating my boyrfiend 6 months ago and im head over heels in love with him. Ive had so many bf's and never fell inlove before. A few months ago i truly felt that he was the one and i wanted everything with him...

I don't understand my boyfriend's behavior. Is he hiding something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and I am finding it a real struggle. He said from the outset that he liked his own space and didn’t like talking much, but sometimes it gets too much for me. He had said some time ago that...

This boy likes me, but I don't! How can I turn him down gently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Im getting so upset lately because im so stressed about two boys. I have meet up with Danny about 4 times, we have never kissed or anything but he told me he likes me on a text and i told him i dont know how i feel yet. But the way we talk you woul...

I'm always staying at his house, but he never stays at mine. What can I do to balance this out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - My fiance and I are in a wonderful relationship. We both live with our parents still as I am still in college, and he's waiting for me to graduate and become financially stable for when we do move in together. We see each other, usually around 4-5 ...

She's texting too much and I think she's cheating on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - Well lets see.... I have a girlfriend of two months and am really into her. She seems to be into me by what she says but her actions are leading me to believe otherwise. She knows that when I am with her I hate it when she texts all the time. ...

I think that guys don't want me because I'm fat. What can I do to lose weight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Hey I Know This Is Pretty Sad But I Havnt Had A Boyfriend Since December And The Day He Dumped Me It WAs Like I Had Been Shot In The Heart. I Havnt Had A Boyfriend Since Then. I've Been Told Im Pretty, Im 5"10, GOt A good Personality. But I Think ...

I don't understand men! Why can't they just make a decision?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I dont understand men. Why do they say one thing an then do the complete opposite. For example my guy an me broke up an then we take some time apart an after awile we begin talking again. When i went away we talked lots. He told me he wanted t...

My boyfriend wants a baby but I don't want to! What should I do about this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - okay so ive been with my boyfriend now for 4 months, we were having sex before our relationship and were very close to each other, but on friday night my parents were away for the weekend so i had the house to myself and hes was stayin at mine but...

I'm finally with a nice man but I'm not sexually attracted to him, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I was a single mom of two boys when I met "Bob". My previous relationship lasted 8 years and was very violent ending in CPS taking one of my children because of the abuse. It was either my ex or my boys and I picked my boys and currently have sole ...

He stubbornly insists we should be friends but I know he's much more than that to me! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5729 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - What do you do when you and a man just CANNOT be anything but significant others? There is no "friends" step where we are concerned. It is all or nothing. He wants to build a relationship with me again, but he says he doesn't want to jump right in...

How do I escape from my abusive boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years we have been living together for 1 year everynight is the same story i end up in bed crying my eyes out, he constantly accuses of me of infidelity and being places i have never heard of, hes always putting ...

How do you make a guy happy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - How do you make a guy happy? Why do guys prefer tv to time with their children or otha halfz? When is the right time to ask your guy to do sumthin nice for you. Because i feel the answer to these are. Dont bother im happy with a beer and tv. Dont ...

Is this Turkish guy being genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I live in england. I met this guy in June in Turkey. he lives there (and is turkish). We had a great time together..kissed a few times nothing more. We exchanged numbers and email addresses and speak a fair bit. The thing is he doesnt ring me alot, ...

I've been celibate for 5 years and I'm wondering why I can't attract men!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5565 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I have been celibate for 5 years and I have been trying like mad to figure out why I can no longer attract men! I never used to have this problem - I had plenty of boyfriends and relationships throughout my 20's. I broke up with a long term partner ...

Should I ask out my coworker? If he turns me down I'll still have to work with him every day!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - This guy recently started working at my job. While he was training I noticed him watching me when I'd walk by. I few days later he yelled to me and asked me which department I worked in. I answered and introduced myself...he introduced himself as ...

Should I ask him if he feels the same way about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I'm scared because I never felt this feeling. I've had boyfriends in the past and I think I loved them. It's just that with this guy it's different. Whenever I'm with him I get this funny feeling in my stomach. It's like I'm at peace when I'm by h...

Do you think I made the right decision on backing down in the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Ok so me and this guy are in a relationship, both of us are with other people as well. My guy just found out that his mom has cancer so I thought the best thing for our relationship would be for me to back down. He is all his mother has and with all ...

Should I have sex with my friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Hi people quick question if you could answer it that'd be so good! Well im 17 and havent really had a bf / sex yet but it doesnt really bother me that much. Me and my male friend whose 18 are soo close and just sit chatting and such in our unde...

What did he mean when he said this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Ok this has confused me abit. Well before i start i'd like you to know that this bullying is mroe or less over but i'm still wondering about this. Basically afew members of the group suddenly took a disliking to me, never found out why or anything...

Am I being spiteful by wanting more of his attention, or am I right by saying I'm coming second best?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Lately, i've noticed that my boyfriend is more interested in ebay. He's always been interested in selling and has a good eye for a bargain and has his own business in selling things! But recently, whenever i go round his house or he comes round mi...

My boyfriend treats me really bad... will he change someday?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Hi, I apologize if this is long but it wil help u understand, I think neway. He has ben my boyfriend 4 almost 2yrs now. There have been sum issues but it seems 2 b getin worse. Here is sum backgrnd info on him tht mite help. ill try 2make this s...

I think my girlfriend was not a virgin when I had sex with her and I don't know what to do!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - my girlfriend was having two boy friends at her past . i think she must have sex wih them because when i had sex with her there was no bleeding and my penis got easily entered her vagina and i hav heared that for the first time sex its just ...

Online dating tips

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Online Dating Tips Newsflash: The girl of your dreams is not just hanging out in your neighborhood, but she is also just a click away! Just like the way business surges its scope wider, tapping the world, the dating scheme is expandin...

My friend had sex with my crush! How should I react now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - You seriously won't believe this : In the past few weeks i was getting quite close to this guy, lets call him "Bob". I say quite close because the 'closest' we ever got was a kiss -but for me that is really intimate, because i'm a little bit gawk...

I'm crushing on my (ex's) friend but my life is under a microscope. How do I break out of this rut?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (?) - I just broke up with my long-time boyfriend. I was always checking out other guys and I realized that we were just incompatible or I wouldn't be doing that. I'm actually painfully shy and not the type to objectify men. Anyway, we both knew it wasn't ...

I trust him, it's his ex that I can't stand or trust. Should I feel worried? He never mentions her now or keeps contact...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend for a year and two months so far.He stays in northern cali and I stay in southern cali.We plan on him coming down when my family gets situated and theres a possibility of him moving in. It...

Why can't I explain very well why I love my BF?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend a lot... sometimes I ask myself why and my answer is bcuz I love him and I know he loves me... There's no other answer... as far as him helping me financially and being there when I need him as far as needing a ride or somethin...

First date conversations!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5716 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - You've found the object of your interest, made eye contact and you are making your way towards him. And while you are doing that, don't forget to BREATHE ! You've done the hard work - you've approached someone and not only talked to them but secured ...

Should I tell him that I was dating/sleeping with someone else in the earliest stage of our relationship? I did tell both at then our relationship was casual.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - After a long dry spell, I decided that I should start looking for my 'special someone'. I met two great guys and decided to date them both for a while to see which one was a better match. In the beginning it was very casual - I would see each man ...

My girlfriend is going to college so I feel very lonely and sad...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - Ok here's the deal. My girlfriend is going 2 college and seriously I don't know what to do I am depressed, I don't sleep at night,I cry a lot,and all I do is just think of her she's the best thing that has ever happend to me.. When I was young I we...

He wants me to give him an incredible orgasm, but I have to put my finger in a certain place...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend asked me if I ever wanted to try anal sex. I'm not interested in puttig anything up my hiney. Exit only please! He mentioned that one of the biggest and best orgasms he ever had was with an ex who fingered him in the anus during sex. ...

Is it so wrong for me to want him to see the truth?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Hi I have a psychological question. I think. First is it a mistake to try and make someone see things about them selves? If they aren't ready? They deny it totally? I am trying to prove to a very imature friend that he is a mommas boy. And he has ...

I don't want to hurt anyone. I don't love my husband, and I want a guy who has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - My husband says he loves me, I believed him. I thought I felt the same. When I got pregnant with our child thats when he proposed to me. I said yes. I was going to wait till after the baby was born to get married but everybody kept asking me why ...

My boyfriend has changed, he is not as loving as he had been, I want my old boyfriend back, what do I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - After telling my boyfriend about my lack of selfesteem things haven't been the same... he's not affectionate when he texts me or talks 2 me on the phone... Things dnt seem the same and I miss us and my heart is beakin apart... I love him so m...

Does My Teacher Like Me Back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I'm not his student anymore but he comes and helps out at my high school in the summer sometimes and I see him there. Anyways I've liked him since I met him which was 6 years ago. I found myself staring at him when he was around and a lot of the t...

Am I being too hard on my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Hello I need some help here. I have been with this guy for around 6 months, we get along really well, and he does everything to please me, he is a wonderfull guy. We are exclusive, and we have strong feelings for each other. When we started dating I...

"Stand By Your Man" should also apply for women!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I really need to know if I'm right in this case because if not, I do want to apologize to my husband and his friend. Basically, his best friend, we'll call him D, lived with us when we were first married. Actually, my husband owned the house an...

I don't know if I should wait for him or move on when he goes to the air force...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Ok so here is the dilema: I have been recently talkin 2 a guy and we haven't made anything official but i know were headed there. Earlier on he had mentioned goin 2 the air force and we discussed that if things got serious with us then we will fin...

We spend less time with each other because of our jobs. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Me and my fiance for 8 months have not left each other side.. but maybe for 4 hours a day.. Now i have a job that is 9 to 5 like he wanted and he works nights for about 5 hours. We see each other for about 3 hours a night.. Now he's lonely during ...

Our lack of intimacy is putting a strain in our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

29 August 2008 (M) - Hi, It's really hard for me to admit it, but i really don't know what i should be doing in my relationship. I've been seeing my girlfriend for 6months and it's my first ever serious relationship. I'm 22 and she's 19. We are both virgins an...

Does this mean that he still wants to be with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - hi please can someone help me to understand. I have broken up with my ex about 6 weeks ago. The reason he gave me was that his feeling for me have changed. I was a little confused as he told me that he was happy being with me. I gave back all the ...