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Archived questions from: 27 August, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Is it ok to date a friend's ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I have an old friend that I lost touch with approx 9 years ago (I have to add that we weren’t best friends but hung out occasionally but friends just the same). I recently met a guy and surprisingly enough he is her soon to be ex-husband. I had only ...

I don't understand what he wants and his behavior is hurting me. Is he playing with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I am a married woman that cheated the husband for the first time with this guy(36 yrs old) I have been talking to for 7 months. During the 7 months he called me every single day and our conversations lasted more than 1 hour in average. We had sex ...

Does the age difference matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - im 14 years old and my sisters best mate keeps flirting with me and tries cuddling me but shes 11 nearly 12, i do have some feelings for her but is the age diffrence a problem?...

I hurt the girl I like, I tried to apoligize to her and she just ignored me. I don't know what else to do. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I have a problem that I am unsure how to handle. I am 31 years old, and I have never had a girlfriend. I had a close friend in high school and that was about it. I never really was looking for anyone, and was pretty much content on spending my ...

Romantic gestures towards women - some brainstorming!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5207 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - Hi. For a little project I'm working on, please, would as many women as possible kindly list three gestures which they would deem to be 'romantic' towards them. Many thanks!...

We're both shy, what could we talk about when we call each other?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - dear cupid, ok well theres this boy i like a lot well actully love.and when i talk to him i dont know what to say. like everytime we talk on the phone it always quiet. he told me that he nervous to talk to me and a little shy and i am too. and i ...

What romantic things can we get up to now that neither of us have our own place where we live alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - This is mainly addressed to folk who have been at university. I'm about to start at university in September after taking a year out. I've got my accomodation sorted staying in halls of residence in a pretty nice room with an ensuite bathroom and a ...

What do guys expect on the first couple of dates?

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27 August 2008 (F) - What do guys expect on the first couple of dates? and how long should you wait before doing anything? ...

Be careful about the shallow rules on dating!!

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27 August 2008 (F) - Dating Rules: Are they a Girl’s Worst Enemy? As women, we are bombarded by books, friends and the TV media telling us what dating “rules” to follow to determine whether a guy is treating us well. These rules tell us whether he’s Mr. Right materi...

I'm haunted by things that have happened to me and now my mind is totally confused! Can someone help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I am in a total confused situation. I have been through a lot of problems, still it seems that my mind never learns from my experiences.... I guess my story is gonna be a bit long and boring but am gonna tell u my problems My father had always b...

How can I find senior women and make them attracted to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I'm 19 I am attracted almost exclusively to older women. And by older, I mean at least 55 and up. But I'm scared to talk to them cause why would they want to date someone younger? How can I find senior women and make them attracted to me?...

How do you challenge someone on an emotional level?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - So my previous stories tell how my ex and I got to this point. I met up with her a few weeks ago and we talked and had a pretty nice time it was a little awkward but it was ok. We got to talking and she expressed she was still angry with me for ...

I constantly chase her and am the only one with initiatives, which makes me feel unwanted, unprioritised. How should I handle this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I am in a relationship with a girl i care very much about. I believe she cares about me as she has told me but she is totally oblivious to making any effort in the relationship where it really counts and believes that just by turning up at the ...

I like him but he has still has a gf and I didnt want to mess things up! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - Theres this guy i know through an orchestra, iv only really know him prperly for 1 year. but ove that year weve become so close, and i now consider him by far one of my best friends. I never find it akward around him and we can always find somethin ...

I don't know if he's just a bad kisser or if there is a problem with me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - Okay iv been going out with this guy for just under 4 months, i think hes a really amazing guy and love him to bits. however i find kissing him a realy turn-off. He is my first proper boy friend, and i felt even the first time we kissed he dived ...

He tells me he doesn't like relationships, then continues to flirt intensively; I don't know how to read this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - Ok last night i was hanging out on my porch with my "the boy next door crush" There was alot of flirting, touching,cuddling kind of stuff going on. I mean we were like hanging out for like an hour and a half and it was like non stop flirting. Well...

First meeting after I declared my feelings for her and she rejected me politely, any advice for me?

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27 August 2008 (M) - Hi there, I got to meet this great girl. However she left the class only after one meeting. Lucky thing is she gave me her no. and I felt a bit pushy or desperate and told her my feelings. I just could not stop thinking of her. Well her birthda...

I accused my boyfriend unjustly and he has forgiven me, but his mother has not. Should I stay with him after this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I have to be the most stupidest person in the world, well not stupid gulible. I accused my bf of kissing a member of his family (well his cousin to be exact) cause someone told me and I believed it so when I accused him it came out as if it was ...

Not really physically attracted to him anymore!! Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been in a relationship with my bf now for about 5 years. We both really love each other and he is a great guy. However, lately I've been feelin like he's not very good-looking. My bf is about 5'7 and very skinny. Also he's only 25 and...

Should I wait for guy 1 or go for guy 2? What do you think?

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27 August 2008 (F) - Well, i really two guys. they are both really amazing guys, and there is a few problems. first off, i have like guy 1 for a long time, and hes one of my best friends. but he is dating this girl, who lies, makes him jealous on purpose, and does stuff ...

How do women discover how to integrate a certain way of communicating into a man's thinking and behavior? How I can open up and express how I feel AND get positive results?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I've been with this guy for almost 2 years. We never had "the talk" about where we stand in our relationship. I'm confuse and slightly unhappy. So, I'm trying to open up and express how I'm feeling about our relationship. I did some reading about ...

I haven't had a girlfriend for a while, any opinions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - ok well i am i junior and i havent had a gf since i was in the 7th grade. my last gf turned lesbian a few months after we went out. but she went out with other guys after me so im pretty sure it was me. i get compliments on my eyes like hourly. and ...

Why do I still miss my ex boyfriend and his abuse?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I though as you get older that you become wiser, well that is not always the case. I did not date for a few years. I had the stomach surgery that helped me to lose over 100 pounds. I met the most handsome man at the dance and he was attracted to ...

I am afraid of jepordising the relationship because of my jealousy/insecurity issues over the amount of partners she's had

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - Hey there, im a 19 year old guy just about to head off to uni in a couple of weeks, and after having thought that id remain single during my gap year after some very negative experiences (including a split in a long term relationship, some mistakes ...

I feel confused, lost and alone

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5707 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - Hi I'm 23, and have been with my fiance for 2 and a quarter years, we met in my workplace when I was 20 and she was my first girlfriend, being overweight, and a bit of a reclusive person I had, and still have almost no self esteem. Due to this ...

Lack of self esteem is causing problems for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I just told my boyfriend about my lack of self esteem and why I tend to push people away including him... and why I'm constantly crying... he said we'll talk more about it... What should I be expecting from him... as far as treating me righ...

Just how much should I shave off...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I recently found out that my bf wants to move onto the next step in our realationship. But honestly I'm afraid of what he'll think about my pussy. I know he likes them shaved but I don't know how much. I'd prefer not to ask him though. How much ...

He didn't write my name on the card and it hurt me... Am I being overly sensitive here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

27 August 2008 (F) - I have been in relationship for nearly four years now but have only earlier this year met my boyfriend's mother and family and have been to quite a few family gatherings now and seem to be well accepted. We went to a family party this weekend and ...