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Archived questions from: 20 August, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He wants to kiss with tongues but I'm not sure what to do... !

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - hii x i am goin 2 alton towers soon with my boy friend ov 10 months ! he told me on msn that he really wants to kiss with toungs or if i am not comfortable with that just 2 snog n stuff well i thort that this wud be the perfect time ! so i need som...

What if he neglects the baby if I were to tell him? Another girl is already having his child!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I'd want to thank in advance for any readers and answerers, sorry for the lengthy post. I really don't know what im asking for here. Maybe just for your opinion on my situation, or I just need people to hear me out. I don't really have anybody to ...

Does he like me for me or for my ethnicity?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I am 22 and at University and there is a guy on my course who fancies me because I am Chinese. I find this rather disconcerting because I am not sure where I stand with him and if he likes me for me or just for my ethnicity. He already has a friend ...

Would my social worker be allowed to have a relationship with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5740 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I fancy a social worker that has been assigned to myself and my 3 year old daughter, i am single, so is he, we are the same age and he is just the most amazing and intriguing man i have ever met; he is soon to finish on my case and is being moved on ...

What happened here? He pays no attention to me unless we're out, and the sex has gone from a lot and good to less and NO foreplay!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5740 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - When me and my bf started dating in the beginning, he would be all over me. Now after 5 months of dating i don't even exist around him, he'd rather just have me in the background while he watches tv, hangs out with his friends etc. As soon as we go ...

Is she his girlfriend by now? Should I even bother trying my luck with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5740 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - A few weeks ago I saw this amazingly gorgeous girl come into where I worked and I didn't get her number, but another dude who works there did. He told me that he intends to make her his girlfriend, therefore I'm not allowed to talk to her if I see ...

Could you give me help with my harsh problems?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - ok here goes, i have been with my girlfriend over 8 months now, at the start of the relationship i slept with someone else and also kissed another girl, ii told her about this and we broke up then decided we still wanted to try, then she kissed ...

We work together, he used to come and see me all the time, now he seems to be ignoring me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - My situation is this, I have never had a boyfriend of any sort and to be honest I have never really been attracted to any lads until about a year ago, when this really nice guy started working for our Company, he seemed just like me - quite shy. ...

Bad choices, either stay with my boyfriend who I care for as a friend or go for the one I really like but who is moving away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - Well I must be confused as on a website asking this. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.. Here's the main problem. I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years (and have since moved in with) I started dating him after a really bad pa...

Third Wheel: He's having trouble "balancing" us both!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 6 months. It is a pretty serious relationship and have both told each other we love one another.He lives and works long hours in the city and I live about a half hour away. Usually during the week I will drive in ...

Is my girlfriend losing interest and taking me for granted?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 1.5 years now. She is 19 and I'm 21. When we first started dating we saw each other quite often- 3-4 times a week, which is expected at the beginning of any relationship. We usually spent some time ...

Will our relationship be affected long-term due to early sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - My ex and I are planning to get back together and although we are 17/18 yrs we discuss our future and getting married.We were together for 3 yrs but broke up for 5 months mutually.We were planning to abstain until marrige but things took a turn and ...

Is he interested in me even though he says "nothing's there"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I have this friend, a guy, that I have known for over 2 years now. We are very good friends and get along great. We would hang out and drink and talk and have soooo much fun. He would get a little touchy feely with me, but that was ok. He was ...

How can I get over being depressed about not being in love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5740 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - why is it so hard to get over a love for somone that will never happen. everytime i see people kissing or holding hands it feels like my heart is splitting in two. i know ill never see him again because he lives abroad and he likes my friend. ...

Why does he tell me he loves me to then only ignore me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - ok heres the story, i have been going with this guy for the past 18 months, i very much love him, more than i have loved anybody, but in the past we have both done things 2 hurt each other, we both have cheated on each other, and we split up for ...

Is this a sincere apology from someone that's grown up or is he just trying to get me in bed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - My first major boyfriend got back in touch with me the other day and I'm not sure what to do about it. I was completely in love with him but he cheated on me, then after we broke up we just kept hooking up over and over again for about a year until ...

It looks like he's having his cake and eating it, and I just don't know what to do for the best!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5738 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - In March this year I started talking online to a guy. It turned out that he was the year above me at school and lived 2 minutes walk from my house. (he had changed so much I didnt recognise him). We met up a month later and got on like a house on...

Why wont my boyfriend kiss me when I go to visit him in Prison?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I'm 16 + my boyfriend is 17, he's still a virgin. Its not that which i am confused about. He's in prison + when i go to see him + ask him for a kiss he simply laughs + tells me that im not gettin 1. He's only ever kissed 1 girl. Why doesnt he ...

When I met my ex he didn't have a job / career, and hasn't progressed much since. Should I try and work things out with him after a failed relationship with another?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - i have had quite a rocky two years. Two years ago i was in a relationship which my parents didnt approve of coz the man had no job and no career and wasnt making any money. I loved him tho so i made the decision to be with him and decided to give...

After the break up I met someone else, now both men are interested in me and I don't know who to choose...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I am separated with 2 small children and just started dating a man for the last 5 months. We had very romantic dates and passionate sex every Sat. night...until he announced that he wanted to have dinner with an ex-girlfriend who just came back ...

I'm 23 and have never had a relationship. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - Okay, first time speaking out about all this, here goes: I'm 23 and a virgin, never been in a relationship/kissed/etc. I'm a college graduate, starting up grad school soon. I have a few female friends, but they're either in relationships or...

I'm in love with two guys, help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I have a serious problem: I have a boyfriend of one year and I love him very much, over the past four months I have fallen in love with one of his friends. We are all in school together. I know I am young, but I know that I love both of them ...

I'm 15, and never had a girlfriend, been kissed or even held hands with a girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

20 August 2008 (M) - I'm 15, and never had a girlfriend, been kissed or even held hands with a girl. Am I doing someting wrong? Whenever I think a girl likes me it always turns out that they were just being friendly. My brother is 2 years older than me but has had at ...

Does your boyfriend watch endless hours of tv?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - Does your boyfriend watch endless hours of tv? I am so sick of it! It is on from the minute he gets home, until he finally falls asleep! We used to have fun together, but now I stay in the living room, on my computer and he stays in the bedroom ...

Is he lying to me when he tells me he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5740 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - There is this boy that i have been talking to for a while...at the beginning of the summer we really liked each other, or so he told me, and then didnt talk to me for a month. then one day we started talking again... when i told him how i felt about ...

House Trouble: How do I not be the bad guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5741 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I am 19 and me and my bofriend just bought a house together 3 months ago, now his friend got kicked out of his house and my boyfriend said he could live with us without asking me. I feel like my privacy will be taken away what should I do and say ...

Is anyone else just as afraid to be alone?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - Here I am again - I thought I was making progress and I know that the boyfriend is NO GOOD for me and I deserve better so why do I still want to get attention from him? He makes me sick! Like last night he said he would call back and he didnt the...

He kidnapped me and now talks in terms of marriage. Should I tell him I don't want to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - I'm 16 and I recently met this guy, he seemed so nice and sweet and now we are living together. He's 25 and he has a good job and a girlfriend but he tells me he doesn't love her. I used to live at home but like the knight he is, he rescued me from ...

My older boyfriend doesn't know if he wants a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - Ok so im 21 years old and have been seeing this guy who is actually alot older then me he is 38, it started out just hanging out and having alot of fun well now we are sleeping together and i stay at his house alot. Well i really really like him now ...

How can I cut free my widowed mother's apron strings?!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - hi i'm 26 and i want to move away with my boyfriend down south, to grad school, but i daren't tell my widowed mother whom i currently still live with. all of our family live in the same village and always have. mum and dad stayed near thei...

Why do guys make jokes about this? Do they want girls to think they are studs or are they really sleeping around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - Quite a few of the guys I have been with have joked about not making marks on them incase the other girls see. Why do guys make jokes about this? Is it a case of they want us girls to think they are studs and that lots of girls want them or are ...