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Dating: Help and advice

I find her irresistibly attractive, more so than anyone else I've ever known, even celebrities.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - I'm having some trouble understanding exactly what I'm experiencing. I recently made friends with a girl whom I used to know at my primary school. I cant really explain why but I find her irresistibly attractive, more so than anyone else I've eve...

Financial, Work Related and Family issues, is having this overwhelming effect on both of us. Any advice please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Hey there dear cupid. I have been with my boyfriend for going on a year now. Here lately things have been rocky between us due to alot of things going on for both of us outside of the relationship. Financial issues, work related issues, and fami...

Does anyone have any good 6 month anniversary ideas?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - just wondering if i can get some ideas... its mine and my partners 6 month anniversary and i have no idea what i should do for him...any suggestionss????...

I slept with a married man who really seemed to like me. Now he says it won't happen again and not to tell anyone.help

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - hi im a 30 year old female and been friends with a 30 year old male for about 3 years we talk on the net and hes always liked chatting me up we both have 2 children and hes married.when i went round a week ago we ended up having sex.and turns round ...

I met a girl eight weeks ago. I probably won't see her again, but I can't get her out of my mind.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - ok I met this girl at an event in manchester about 8 weeks ago i realy like her and i think she liked me as well as i always caught her looking at me and when i was not looking i could sense her looking at me and she smiled at me as well because of ...

I am 14, he is 18. Should I date him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - dear cupid well im seein this guy ive known for a long time now and he is understanding and he would never pressure me to have sex he told me he wud wait for me when im ready but thats the thing im 14 and he iz 18 and he iz realy nice but i dont ...

I only like him as a friend. I don't want to hurt him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I've been texting this lad for quite some time now, and i've developed trust in him, and we were getting real good mates. the other week he told me he liked me and has done for quite some time. he also liked my best mate not so long ago, they ga...

He said he does not like me "in that manner" but I can't get him out of my head. Any chances for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Ok; so i like this boy, and i have told him i liked him, now things between us have completely changed. We used to laugh and joke but now all people talk about is me liking him, they make a big deal about it and it makes me feel nervous around him. ...

I want to put my literary work in the Internet, but not without the copyright! How to obtain it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Is it possible to obtain copyright for literary work you don't publish / not yet? I want to put my poems in the net but not without the copyright ,which the Internet as far as i know, doesn't provide. Any views on this or any suggestions on how best...

I have a great boyfriend, but I keep wanting to be with other men for sex, is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years. he's a great bloke who treats me like a queen, is faithful and great looking, but i keep wanting to be with other men for sex, is this normal? Does this mean i have to end it with him? Should...

I think we both like each other. Any tips on how to take this flirting game to the next level?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I work at a theme park in the gift shops. I have gotten to know Anthony who is my age and is very sweet and happens to work in my department. He gets me and other workers in our department soda (there are free soda fountains throughout the p...

I still have trust issues, and there are times I just want to lash out!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - My ex cheated but I have forgiven him, and he has grown up since then. We both love each other and he is convinced we are meant to be together. I still have trust issues though. How do I resolve them? I feel especially insecure when his best girl...

Am I right to put my foot down about him texting these girls?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Hi, needing a few opinions on my situation. I've been with my boyfriend for not far off 4 years and its been great. Yet there has always been one thing that has worried me and makes me slightly paranoid and that is his constant texting with his girl...

Am I overreacting about my boyfriend's stunning best friend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5171 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriends best friend is a girl, and she is utterly stunning, she is very thin and striking, wheras i am very short and curvy. I have no problem with him having a best friend who is a girl, its just I get jealous sometimes as she always sits on ...

All I want to know is, do you think this boy likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - From now on to make it easier, #1= the person who doesn't like the guy i do. #2= the person who likes this guy alot. #3= the true friend who doesn't hate him and doesn't fancy him either. #2 won't stop going on about him. my friend text him and ...

I'm 12, he's 15, and says he can't be with me because of our age difference, is he embarrassed by me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I'm 12 and i like this boy. but he's 15. i love him and i've told him. n he said he felt the same way and said he loved me too. but he also said that we couldnt be together yet because of our age difference. is he embarrased by me? x...

He's 29 year old, non committed guy, who wants to stay with mum and dad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 years and its a nightmare, we love eachother but argue alot. Since I have known him he has never tried to talk about a future with me, we have been on holiday twice together. I am 25 still live at home...

Was his decision not to pursue a relationship because our circumstances? Or does he simply just not like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I broke up with my ex after 11 years. We had lived together for that time and owned a house together, it was a very serious relationship. Four months later I bumped into an “old flame”. We’d never really “got it together” but over the course o...

This younger girl has a bad reputation. Should I keep seeing her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I am using my sisters account on here, she said its fine. I am a 34 year old man. I always go for older women and have been seeing older women for a few months and just having fun, but one got a bit serious and started being a bunny boiler. I have j...

Twice we arranged to meet and twice he never showed up. Is he playing with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Right i am a bit confused right now and would really apprechiate some advice, i don't wanna go on but i need to put it in detail for you to understand. I met this guy online about 4 weeks ago, i really liked the sound of him, so messaged him and he m...

Are good relationships hard work?

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12 August 2008 (F) - I think I have too little experience to honestly answer this for myself, I'll explain a little why I'm asking. My bf of 4 years has developed an infatuation with another girl. He told her he loved her, but I'm not sure if he even knows if his feel...

The first time he penetrated me I never bled, so now I'm scared he's going to think I was faking my virginity.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Hi there! I've been with this guy for about a year and everything seems right. I was with him a couple of weeks back and we were discovering each other. He didnt go inside me, but by the time we finished, i was on my way home i was bleeding...

Should I break up with him even though he still wants to be with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - I still have feelings for my ex boyfriend who I was with for 6 1/2 years and we just broke up 2 months ago. I told me current boyfriend this and he still wants to be with me?!?!But I don't feel right staying with him when I have feelings for som...

For some reason I just want a little more than his distant personality.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for quite sometime now. The relationship is going great, but I think he may be depressed. He is very withdrawn, wants to be alone all the time and hardly talks to anyone. How can I help him? I feel like his depr...

I got back with him thinking he'd changed, but he hasn't at all! What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I have a boyfriend that i got back together with. i didnt know why i did, cause he really hurt me, but i still had feelings for him, but during the time we were not together i started liking my best guy friend. He is always there for me anyway, so i...

I am having trouble getting over her past. Help!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - My girlfriend has a sexual past, as do I. But for some reason hers bothers and haunts me. She's lived a much different life than me. She just got divorced about 2 years ago, and has been with 5 guys since. My mind can't stop picturing her past, It ...

I accused my boyfriend of cheating, but I was wrong. How do I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - i recently accused my boyfriend of cheating on me when i later found out he wasnt now he isnt talkin to me i cant live without him how do i get him back? please help...

We both like each other, but she is stressed and busy. What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - I'm currently extremely confused at this situation: Me and this girl i really like went on a date to the movies and it went extremely well. We were totally comfortable around eachother and she kept messing with her hair and mine, kept touching my...

He caters to his immature adult children to the detriment of our relationship. How should I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - i need to get your opinion on how to sucessfully date an older man that is dysfunctional and his two children (married) are very dysfunctional. i have been dating him for almost four years and he still will not take up for me with his kids. ...

He is very secretive, does not talk about his past and says he does not love me, but is fond of me. What to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - ive been seeing a man for nearly 2 years at the start he said he didnt want anything serious but things had got better over time we have never argued i enjoy being with him we dont live together i see him everyday we walk our dogs together and meet ...

Out of a relationship into another, right or wrong ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - isit ok to go straight out of a serious relationship into another, personally i feel that theres nothing wrong with it but you must make sure your ready to be into another serious relationship, but id like your opinion please give me your awnsers...

I have a huge crush on a girl at my school. How can I get her to like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - I have a huge crush on a girl that goes to my school. I want to ask her out so bad but I don't want to make myself look like a jackass in front of her (which I have done in front of other girls I liked). What do I do?...

I've met this amazing guy but he is not a great looker-what do I do?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - Okay so my question is this... I am 19, and two weeks ago I have met this guy... He is so amazing. In his personality... I cannot even describe all of his wonderful characteristics...He truly is amazing. Truly. He is talented in music, has nice ...

I seem to be on "hold" with the women I want to date, any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - So i have a little bit of a problem that maybe you guys can help me with. I think i am falling in love with my best friend. I really do not know what to do at this point. So let me give you some background information. We have known each other...

He doesn't want to date but is still flirty with me, what does it mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - umm i need help well this guy i know i liked him a while back and i stopped liking him but then my brother told me he liked me and so i liked him again so i confronted him about it but he said he liked me but not enough to date me. but he is still ...

I've fallen for a girl, but she continues to stay with her controlling boyfriend. What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - I need some advice I've fallen for a girl who I work with. For the past couple weeks we've been going out and having a good time but she already has a boyfriend. They keep arguing especially when he's had a drink and when he's had a drink he treats ...

Will I look 'too keen' if I call him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I have a crush on this guy and he sms'd me asking me how i was and what i've been doing, he then asked me to call him one day when i go out so that we could catch up. The thing is, my guy friend says that i shouldnt call up my crush but wait until ...

I have accepted the fact that I am gay, recently, all I think about is sex, but how do I approach a guy, without being awkward, please help me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - im 15 and im gay. It took me a while to accept it but i finally have. Latley all ive been thinking about is having sex. I really want to be with someone but i dont know what to say to a guy without feeling awkard. please help me!...

My boyfriend has serious depression problems, he is moody, angry, and I am having a hard time dealing with it, he wants to marry me, but I don't know, any suggestions that could help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfreind for a few years, not that age matters but I'm 41 and he's 52. He has been diagnosed with depresson a couple of years ago, anyway, I'm having a REAL HARD time dealing with it! I love him very much and he wants to marry ...

After an almost two year relatiuonship, my boyfriend and I broke up, he had commitment problems, and his job required a lot, I am devastated, how do I move on with my life?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me out of blue 4 weeks ago after a 1 year 9 months relationship. He moved away half a year ago (4 hours drive away) but come to see me every week (his job allows him to fly in or drive over). everything was going great ...

Is it possible that some of us, are not destined to have loving relationships, or to be happy with someone and not be ultimately rejected?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I came here because of an article that I saw and found it intereasting, I dont look for romance and all because I dont believe it is in the cards for me, Do you think a person can be destroyed for life, or that some of us are just not meant to have ...

I can't fulfill my girlfriends needs, and it's bringing my self confidence down. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5748 days ago

12 August 2008 (M) - well im 16, i need help greatly evrytime i go to have sex with my girlfreind my errection doesnt come iv attempeted 3 times with her. the 1st time, my penis wouldnt come errect. The second i was drunk with her. it would get errect but it hurt her...

We need help, our relationship is getting damaged.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - i need help, my relashionship is getting damage ,it has been 2years of engagement, and from 1st i told my fiance not to have sex till marriage, and he apreciate my idea. but now he reached his limits. And now his health geting damaged and he is ...

I'm stuck between two brothers. Please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5673 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - I know this may be a little messed up but I really need some advice!! I'm going crazy!!! I've been friends with this man for about 13yrs. We just recently crossed the line and did some freaky things together. WE ARE NOT OFFICIALLY together, but I fe...

I feel I need to stay with my boyfriend out of loyalty rather than love!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

12 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend's younger brother told me that he is in love with me and i feel the same, but i dont want to betray my boyfriend by dumping him for his brother. Im 16, his brother is 16, and my boyfriend is 18.. Help! I feel i need to stay with my ...