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Archived questions from: 28 August, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

The guy I like seems interested in someone else. How can I get his attention back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - I went out to eat with my department from work. Two of which are guys who I think like me and one of which I like back. His name is Anthony. I sat near them both and had a goodtime. I guess Ant likes Mariah also because he was very sweet to me and ...

I want to spend more time with him but he apparently can't. Should I give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - i have been seing this guy on and off since late last year. The problem is he cant commit to me. we text every day and talk on the phones about once a week we live a lil way apart but its only a 20 min drive. ( we both have cars and drive) t...

I don't know how to explain the scars of my legs to the new guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Hi, Basically my problem is that I have scars on my upper legs from self-harming a very long time ago ( 10 years ago). The reasons behind this don't really matter as they no longer exist and don't explain anything about the person that I am now. ...

He can't seem to decide if I should move in and I'm tired of waiting!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Need your opinion. My bf and I had been on a long distance relationship for about 4 years. We have talked about moving in together, but it does not seem to happens for several reasons. On May we were going to buy a place, but the deal did not go t...

What sex positions are there were the girl does the work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Hello! I was wondering if there are any other postitions (other than girl on top) that requires the girl to do work, or even variations of girl on top other than reverse cowgirl, something new? I do like missionary and doggy style and whatnot but ...

Will he ever contact me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - I met this guy 3 months ago and I really fancied him. We were seeing each other once a week and spent some time on the phone. Two weeks ago he invited me to teatro. He was acting strangely, I mean he was quite nervous. After the show we went out ...

What should I do about my super-jealous boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now, and at the start of the relationship everything was great he really did make me feel like a princess. But just about 3 months ago things started to change, he went out with his friends a lot more, ...

I think I missed out when I was a teenager, so I broke up with her. Will I regret this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - Recently me and my girlfriend broke-up, just a few days ago in fact. We'd been going out for about 6 months, she's my best friend and we do love each other. Without sounding bigheaded, she's head-over-heels in love with me. We get on really w...

She's my friend's sister, how can I tell if she likes me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - i like my best friend's sister but she's 4 years younger than me how can i tell if she likes me back ...

Am I asumming too much with this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5726 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - I had a guy come into my workplace to sell an up to date photocopier. I must admit I thought he was good looking. He did the usual body language, shaking hands and turning his body towards me. I told him I would be on holiday for a week and i...

I think I'm becoming too attached to her, and I barely know her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - Hi, I've been chatting with this girl I'm going to meet Fresher's Week and started a little flirting. Then I wrote a piece of music for her (you must have seen the question). In my last email to her I asked how old she was (we both like the same...

I don't think things are good with him and his new girlfriend. Would it be ok to step in and see?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - This guy I've liked for a long time has a girlfriend and they've been going together for about six weeks. It seems that they are having alot of relationship problems and he is looking for me. I backed off completely when they became committed - I ...

He talks to me on MSN, but not in public. Did he love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - I was dating a guy I really loved and who loved me back I'm sure but we or rather he ended the relationship unexpectedly one night by sms, saying that he didn't feel the same way he used to and that he would rather be (and I quote) "friends as we ...

All my friends have dates and I am the odd man out

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5037 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - This i pathetic really and i know it shouldn't bother me but it does, suddenly all my friends seem to have boyfriends [and girlfriends] and i'm the only one who hasn't got one, all off them are delieriously happy and i'm really pleased for them...

Am I being too traditional? How do I get him to commit?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - I have a guy friend that I've known for about 3 years. We are both in our mid-twenties, so I feel kind of funny asking a dating question. I've had boyfriends before....anyway. In the past year, he has been the only guy I go out with on dates. ...

Is this a coincidence or is he using me just to one up his ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend proposed to me and I was shocked but kind of happy about it, then a week later I found out that his ex girlfriend had been engaged a few weeks before him and i, and he was still talking to her, but not in an acceptable way. A month a...

My current boyfriend is addicted to porn and that caused me to have a fling with my ex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - i have been with my bf for about 2.5 years, recently I have caught on to his obsession with internet porn.Porn really doesnt bother me , we have even watched it together before, but he's sneaking around looking at this all the time(well he thinks ...

I cant get over the fact that my older boyfriend has been with so many other women before me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - There is a 5 year age gap between my boyfriend and I, I am 16 and he is 21. We've been together for 7 months and his past has never bothered me until recently; ofcourse he was going to be more experienced than me etc but he's slept with 20 maybe ...

I am so confused whether he likes me or not!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Ok hey, first of all i'm sorry cuz this will be soooo long and 2nd im sorry if any of you seem to need mental help after reading this to return your head to a sane state! lol! Now when you read this some of you will probably remember me, but the ...

His parents blame me for his running away! He's back home now and still wants to date me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5583 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Well I Have A Boyfriend And Were Bout to Be A Year That We Been Dating..Well @ 3 months going out he ran away and his parents blamed me 4 it..well just 3 days ago we had a big argument and he called his parents and now hes @ home? well see while he ...

Was this a 'sex on the first date' scenario? We knew each other online for months beforehand!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Say you're chatting with someone online for 3 months (webcam/phone aswell), all the while getting closer and closer, you know theres something there....theres a real spark, you have really enjoyed getting to know each other and decide its time to ...

Scared her by displaying exaggerated attention, what now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - and theres this other girl that i tried to land, things were going good until i went overboard, i was in love with her soo much that i put her in my AIM profile as my sister and my bff and 1st on my FACEBOOK, and myspace profiles, and that kinda ...

I've been told that my colleague I was dating answered to personal questions about us at the office and encouraged the banter. I'm so hurt now!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Another day another problem thats how my life seems at the moment....was seeing a guy at work and now found out he has been letting guys take the piss out of me...lauging when they was saying to him...she loves you she wants to have your ...

It's been 2 years since I've broke up with my last boyfriend, I feel awfully lonely and crave for good company, any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm looking for advice from those who ahve perhaps gone through soemthign similar as I have...basically I feel depressed because I feel I can't find a boyfriend. I even signed up for match.com, but have been disappointed with the service. I ...

She sees me as a friend, but is there any way to become "her type"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - ok well maybe being a bad boy isint the way to go, BUT shes really really big on trust and if you lose it youll never get it back. i wrote her a song and she said tht she liked it, BUT she still sees me as a freind, is there any way for me 2 beco...

How can I stop my boyfriend from assuming things and getting jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Ive known my boyfriend for a very long time now like almost 6 years since i was 12 . I love him a lot. I think if theres a word that means more than love thats how i feel for him its just unexplainable. The problem is he gets jealous and assumes to ...

How soon is too soon to sleep with someone you are dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - How soon is too soon to sleep with someone that your dating?? Iv been single for a couple of years and im still none the wiser! Iv done the first date (yes even I know thats too soon, the 5thd date and the 2 month mark but just cant seem to get it ...

I feel like his personal punching bag every time I try to calm him down! Do I have to live in fear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Hi everyone I been reading all the good advices here when it comes to relationship. Now its my turn to ask your advices I am tired and confused on how can I handle the situation. My bf and I were on 2 yrs relationship now and we pass som...

How do I preserve our relationship when he doesn't respond?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

28 August 2008 (?) - hello.... every1 !! i m a 14-yr-old student answering my Xth this academic year, in love with a 15-yr-old doing his XIth. we've been seeing each other for the last 3 months. he was really very impressive during the 1st month... later slowly we c...

My fiance cheated on me with his ex because of lack of passion! Will this work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4666 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - I dont know what to do, my fiancee who I have been with for 2 years has slept with his ex girlfriend, who he has a child with just days after our engagment party. Should I forgive him or move on? This girl is always causing trouble for us and has ...

He dumped me a few days ago because I walk by his house. What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Dear cupid .i have been seeing this guy for a few weeks now.the week after we met i told him that i was still a virgin and wasnt ready for sex.well he forced me but never ended so far.he felt bad?well he came to me the following day and told me his ...

How can I become a "bad boy"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - theres this girl that ive known for only two months, and she's used to date guys who are the "bad boys" per-say, and i am a guy who likes death and black metal and is a musician, she knows that i like her but she told me that i'm not her type, her ...

My high sex drive is straining my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - I have always really been into sex have a high drive I guess. Have been in loving committed relationship for years now and the sex just not enough. Is there any real hope? We have talked but nothing changes... just reamins the same me pining for ...

My ex won't let me date

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Its been a little over a month since our break up and we were together for two years. He has been texting me several times a day and calling me. He told me he wanted to be friends but the constant texting (some letting me know he was thinking about ...

I want to get pregnant on purpose so I can see how he feels about it. What's wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - This is gonna sound really wierd but, I had an abortion when I was 15 by a guy 10 years my senior(which I was unaware of by the way) and he obviously didn't love me like he said cz not only did he force me to get the procedure done he left me at the ...

Why do I find him so irresistable?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - ok so i like this guy... he and his gurlfriend broke up today... blah blah blah... anyway... everytime i close my eyes i picture me laying on his chest... or him and me makeing out... weird i know... and i always! picture me telling him i got raped? ...

How can I get over this jerk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - How do I get over a guy? This guy I, for some unknown reason, really like, disrespects me, lies to me, ignores me and is currently secretly seeing someone else. He has had 6 women in the past 10 months and I dont think this new relationship wil...

How can I convince my friends that he's worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Hello to anyone who is reading this. I have a problem, my friends think that i am to good for my boyfriend. They believe that i should leave him. They also believe that he's a waste of my time and he's holding me back from the things that i want ...

We hit it off on the summer, but I had to go back to my country. Now he ignores me, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - I met this guy in a club during the last days of my holiday. He started to talk to me.. Like "Hi, What's your name etc.." We exchanged telephone numbers. The next day we met again. He was a business-man who studied abroad for 8 years, but now ...

How can I prepare myself for my first time?.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend (that I love) for 3 months and we haven't had sex. On several occasions we've come close to doing so but I've always chickened out at the last minute. Don't get me wrong, I want to have sex but as a virgin, I am terri...

Why can't I have a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5733 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - ok well i am i junior and i havent had a gf since i was in the 7th grade. my last gf turned lesbian a few months after we went out. but she went out with other guys after me so im pretty sure it was me. i get compliments on my eyes like hourly. and ...

Why is my mom doing this? Is she in denial or something?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - my mum has totally baffled me! she WILL NOT, as in no way hozay! never ever ever let my boyfriend in my bedroom, which is fair enough, its her house and i do abide by her rules, she pays for it so she says what gos etc.. but i have been with him now ...