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Should we call it quits after 7 years?

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Question - (31 August 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2008)
A male Canada age 51-59, *eepersCreepers1 writes:

Hello all you experienced people,

My relationship..., seven years engaged a couple ago. 5 kids between us although hers are gone, moved in for a bit but because of lawyers and child support laws she moved out.

we still get along well and enjoy talking all the time, but our sex life sucks, I have given up trying to have sex with her, she is not interested. We both own our own homes, she will not come over to mine, its all on me. One note she did find a 'totally fake' profile on a dating site, I was bored and looking around, stupid me, used a normal password. As I said though the description was not of me.

After this it has cooled even more, sex about once a month if I'm lucky, feel frustrated and alone. She doesn't even know my kids, and has never spent any time with them.

Guess I'm getting sick of it, but after 7 years its hard to call it quits. Although wouldn't be any more alone than I feel now.

JC1

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A female reader, dearkelja United States +, writes (1 September 2008):

dearkelja agony auntI'd be more concerned that she doesn't want to get to know your kids after 7 years. And you say she doesn't come to your house? Sounds a little like a one-sided relationship and more like you have a friend and not a life partner to me. Whether or not you should leave her is more about what you want out of life. You are not married so the decision is a little easier. The fact that you are here asking us is telling that you aren't exactally satisfied.

Personally, I think I would want someone who shared my "whole" life and not just a portion of it.

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