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male
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36-40,
*hippymunk
writes:Hi, I don't normally ask for advice but i'm pretty confused about my situation. I started volunteering at a place a couple months ago and there is this one girl who drew my attention. I want to ask her out but don't know if she's interested in me, and since I have to work with her I must tread carefully. She seems shy too. I'm the only guy on my shift and every other girl who works there talks to me fine but we usually don't initiate a conversation when we are close to each other. She does show me a lot of things and is the only staff member who teaches me new things (she'd always come up to me and ask me if I want to learn how to do this or that). When we do talk, we would almost always hit an akward silent moment, in which I'm forced to walk away. Like, we would be talking and I'd say something and she'd reply quietly and stare at me instead of directly going back to her work... Well, last week I asked if I can get her email in case I needed help with some schoolwork that she was good at (math). She said sure and after a brief talk we hit that familiar silence for a bit then she said "i'll give you my msn *giggle*" Then she went right back to her work! like that conversation totally didn't happen. I was kind of weirded out so after standing there for a bit I walked away. I asked her again later and she began writing it down but said she'd give me her school email instead because "she doesn't go on msn that often." Anyway, before I left, she asked me if I wanted to learn how to do something and I spent an extra 30 mins with her. When she talks to me she always stares at me and gives me full attention and smiles a lot. The akward silence comes from one of us ending a conversation like saying, "ok" and she would still stand there and stare at me. But if she likes me you'd think she'd give me her msn and make an effort to be on right? O.o Sorry for the long post but i'm just not sure if she's just being friendly or if she's really interested.
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