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Dating: Help and advice

I love two boys at once and they both want me?!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I'm so distraught about this at the moment. I have loved a boy for about 2 maybe 3 years now and he has had such a massive impact on my life he has loved me too but we have never gone out or anything So i gave up hope of that ever happening a...

He only wants to spend time with his friends and not with me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - all my boyfriend wants to do is go out with his friends....he never wants to spend time with me a little while ago my boyfriend thought i cheated on him and he finally gave up and he forgave me for evrything and said sorry for not believing in me ...

How can one virgin really turn another virgin on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Hey guys. Me and my boyfriend are both virgins and we plan to have sex soon. We both really want to but I'm sensing he is a bit more nervous than I am (because he says he wants it to be really amazing). Do you have any advice about how I can ...

Too much too fast! Anything else we can do instead of having sex?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

21 August 2008 (?) - Hi everyone. I dont no what to do. I'm 18 [virgin and proud!] But my boyfriend who I love keeps giving me sighns that he wants me to have sex and we'v only been going out for 3 mounths! We were bestsfriends for 2 years but we fell in love. I dont ...

Is it illegal? My 16yr old friend wants to move in with her 17yr old boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Is it illegal?My friend is 16 and she wants to move out with her 17 year old boyfriend and live at her boyfriend's sister house that lives in Fontana,California....

Can I have a relationship with my father's step brother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - hi i know my question is stupid but i can't tell anyone. can i have a relationship with my father's step brother? he's not from our family he's just the son of my grandmother's new husband. we're so attracted to eachother but i don't know.. is he...

I've been with my boyfriend for two years, we've never been in love, but I care about him. I've recently started to like someone else. What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - hi im 16 an been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. the problem is that we r not inlove an never have been, we just really care for eachother. i know deep down we would want to be in a relationship where we r inlove with that person. anyway i ...

I've never felt this way about a woman before and I don't know how to deal with it. How do I get her to notice me or tell if she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5732 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I am a 25-year-old woman who just started graduate school. I have always been straight and only interested in men. I met another girl in my program three weeks ago, and out of nowhere, I've completely fallen for her. She is a very proud lesbian, ...

He says he wants to be my boyfriend, but he also seems like a bit of a womaniser and treats us more like friends with benefits. What kind of relationship is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Im seeing this guy for a month. He is crazy about me, well he sounds like a player, you know those people that fear commitment. I am also not looking for anything serious at the moment as im slowly moving out of a relationship. Well, i never pushed ...

Friend's boyfriend ringing me behind her back- what do I do?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Ok I am in a pickle at the moment!!... it started 5 years ago when I met this guy and instantly I liked him, unfortunately for me at this time I was kinda dating someone else (not seriously) so never persued him though also got the feeling he l...

Why do I feel so empty inside?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - why do i feel empty inside? thers a guy at work that i really really like and he said he like me too but is not ready for a relationship at the moment which i am really cool about coz id rather he was honest with me than not! when it first came ou...

I am in love with this guy and have been dying to have him back ever since we split. I'm not sure how he feels based on the conversation we had. And insight? I don't know what to do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Hello, I am 27 yrs old and my BF of 2.5 years broke up with me in June. I decided that if he were really giviing up on our realtiohsip that it would be best that he not contact me ever. We had been having some trouble since the start of the yea...

Double whammy...I need advice!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I need help,im almost 16 an my boyfriend is almost 14.We dont go to same school anymore but,we reallyyy like eachother, yet we've been a couple for only a week now.And,he wants to have sex with me badly.I'm not sure if i'm ready an if i am ready,i ...

I had encounters, with a man I met on the internet, only for sex, I saw him, in the area where I live, my boyfriend does not know I did this, should I tell him before the internet guy, or someone else does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - two years ago I met up with someone off the internet for sex. He said he was a virgin and so I agreed to be his first. We met up 4 or 5 times just for sex. I thought nothing more of it until now... My boyfriend and I have recently moved to a small ...

Together for seven months, found out he cheated, I love him, took him back, but cannot seem to get over the cheating, it is affecting the relationship, any suggestions on how to forget?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Ok me and my bf have been in a 7 month relationship and i love him so much i ha ve a problem he cheated on me on our 3rd montha nd i didnt find out untill 1 month later when they brook up:_( i loved him so i took him back , not i c a change in him ...

I have a problem with my lips turning white, when I kiss my girlfriend, could wearing chapstick have anything to do with it, any way to prevent this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (M) - hi, Random question here, Every time I kiss my girlfriend my lips end up turning white in areas. I've figured it's only either dead skin or bacteria being killed(similar as to what happens when drinking vodka and the tongue turns white). ...

I think I am naive and have sort of an inferiority complex, I really like this young lady, how do I get over my complex and approach her more confidently?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (M) - am a freshman dude (21yrs) at the university and a few days back I mate a lovely 2nd year colleague (20yrs). i really like her n we get along well. but i have that naive n inferiority attitude that am a freshman though she' a year younger than me. i ...

Two year relationship with a man I care for very much, but who lies and confuses me constanly, what should I do, move on or wait for him to fulfill his many promises, broken many times?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Two years ago I started a relationship with a man a worked with who I thought I knew. I really, really admired this guy professionally and when he asked me on a date I was over the moon. Within a couple of months he moved in to live with me. I dont ...

With my girlfriend for five years, want to marry her, do love her, but total confusion in the relationship, breakdown in communication and other things, need help, whay should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

21 August 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 5 years now and this year was the year I was going to ask her to marry me, we're both 28. She recently came back from a night out with work and woke me to tell me that she and a guy from work had kissed. We ha...

Should I be worried that my bf spent half an hour on the phone with my sister?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - ok recently i found out that my boyfriend had called the house asking for me and because i wasnt there my sister answered. When i returned home she told me that she had talked to him on the phone. I later found out it was for half an hour. I asked ...

How can I make my man really happy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I am a stay at home mom of a 16 month old and a 5 month old. I have been married for 1 year, I have been with my husband for 2 years but we've known eachother for 8 years. I am 27 and he is 33. I find myself wanting him to be home because I miss him ...

Getting very mixed signals from him, I wonder if I should just ignore him all together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5703 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I had been out on a couple of dates with a guy I have known for a very long time. The third date involved him coming to my place for the weekend (he lived 60 miles away). We had a really nice weekend, went to the zoo, romantic dinners etc. As he ...

She won't kiss me in spite of an on-again off-again romance. SHould I push the issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

21 August 2008 (M) - I started dating a colleague of mine in late May. She is in different departments, so we don't really affect each other or see each other much. I had asked her out in October of last year, but she was in a relationship. I May 2008, I found out f...

If I show interest, guys don't. If I back off, they come on strong. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I seem to have a re-occuring problem with all the guys i have dated. 19 years old and so far, all the guys ive dated seem to be so keen in the beguining when im not so sure about them as i am geting to knwo them. Therefore, i am not all over them ...

Seeing someone new: every time I touch him he tells me he has a lot on his mind and won't open up to me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - hi my husband passed away in december an ive recently started to see someone who is 3 years younger than me but recently every time i touch him he tells me to get off he has said that he has a lot on his mind but he wont talk to me how can i sort ...

Should I try again with my not-great ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - i broke up with him because things were really bad between us but i still like him. but i also like another guy at the same time. should i get over my ex or should i give him a try??? please help...

How do I make our first night together perfect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I will be spending a first night sleep over with my boyfriend, the thing is i'm looking for some romantic idea's on how to make it a perfect night ever please.and dont get me wrong i'm not a virgin i just want it to be perfectcause i love him so ...

He doesn't want to commit--should I stay with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I have been seeing this guy for 6 months, he is 36 and i'm 32. When we first got together, he said he had issues with the whole 'girlfriend/boyfriend thing, and that he believed in us both being free to see other people if we wish. I am not that...

Why do girls "settle" in relationships?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5714 days ago

21 August 2008 (M) - I've never quite understood why some people seem to settle for certain relationships....case in point: one of my best friends is in a relationship in which her bf was caught almost going across the country to meet up with his ex...he didn't t...

How do I convince my girlfriend I won't cheat on her? I want to propose next year!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5232 days ago

21 August 2008 (M) - How do I convince my girlfriend that I don't want to cheat on her? We've been together 4 years and in the past I have done things that caused her to lose trust in me. I lied and hid things to do with other girls, but they were all innocent, I just ...

As a man I just can't resist all these beautiful ladies! Which one do I choose?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (M) - I started dating a co-teacher at my school 3 months ago, I seduced her the first time we went out and started making trips back to my house with her even during working hours. The thing is that I already had a girl friend working in a nearby city ...

Male Opinions: He worshipped me and now avoids me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I'm 35 and have been in a relationship for a year with a 39 y/o man. I believed was my soul mate. Alex also felt the same way about me. We have known each other for 2 years prior to our relationship ever beginning. We had coffee one day and out of ...

She says she has strong feelings for me but that I can do much better? How can I fix this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 August 2008 (M) - Dear cupid I have been going out with a girl for two months. These few days she has been iffy if she wants to continue and doesn't know if she can. She finally told me what she thinks. Heres what she said in a facebook message "Okay scratch w...

I have a lot of trauma from my last abusive relationship even though I've tried my best to recover. Any suggestions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5738 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - Hi, I came on here before and got some good balanced advice which was really helpful so I've come back again to ask about a problem. I feel really stuck ... in February my partner of 5 years walked out on me whilst I was unwell (it since transp...

Did I lose my erection over the stress to impress?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

21 August 2008 (M) - hey there i am out of a bad relationship for three months now and a month ago i got a new girlfreind who i have wanted for quite some time.shes hot,cool and got her life together.im intimated by her for some god forsaken reason ha ha and when drunk ...

I lost my best friend because I started to date her ex-boyfriend, now I am so sad, and I think I want to break up with my boyfriend to regain her friendship, should I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5510 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - my best friends and i have been friends for 2.5 years. we have done alot of things together and gone through alot. we even live under the same apartment. her very first love, i was the cupid who match made them. both of them lasted for about ...

We have know each other for four years and have set a wedding date, but we argue all the time now, he acts immature, and I am confused, should I move on, or try harder, to get him to change?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5740 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - i have been with my fiance since highschool, so for about four years now. but it seems as though since we set our wedding date that we just get into constant arguements. i work so hard everyday at work to save and it seems like he rather be at home ...

My boyfriend and I agreed to a break, to meet new people, he got angry when I talked to a guy, I am confused, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5740 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i are on a break for 2 weeks now and he said no one can get mad if we meet new people. but he overreacted when i started talking to this guy? that i just met. he said he doesnt want to worry when hes in college. does that mean he ...