New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

244977 questions, 1084359 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in August, 2008, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (24), 2 (34), 3 (31), 4 (32), 5 (21), 6 (34), 7 (24), 8 (26), 9 (20), 10 (12),
11 (31), 12 (45), 13 (22), 14 (26), 15 (24), 16 (29), 17 (30), 18 (16), 19 (22), 20 (31),
21 (38), 22 (35), 23 (20), 24 (35), 25 (43), 26 (45), 27 (28), 28 (42), 29 (47), 30 (35),
31 (38),

Archived questions from: 6 August, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

(More questions from August, 2008)

Dating: Help and advice

I can't move past my boyfriend kissing another girl. Can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Hi, I am having a baby with my boyfriend and I'm having serious trust issues due to his past behaviour and my own. A few months ago, pre-pregnancy, my boyfriend (we are both in our mid to late 20s) of 2 years months kissed a girl at a club while he...

He has reluctantly agreed to an STI test, but seems to be very annoyed at me. How do I deal with this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have been together almost a year, I am 19 he is 26. we usually use condoms and i am on the pill. recently we were talking about sti testing and he told me he has never ever been tested. I was alarmed by this as i have alw...

Does this fine lady at work (still) fancy me i.e. Am I still in the game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

6 August 2008 (M) - Hi. I've been attracted to this woman at work for the better part of four years. She is polite, dignified, interesting, sexy, very feminine (which acts as a counterbalance to all those power-dressing Germaine Greer types!) and is a genuinely nice ...

My girlfriend has never had an orgasm in her entire life! Could it be that some people just don't orgasm at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

6 August 2008 (M) - My girlfriend has never had an orgasm.. Not just with me, but ever in her life. I have had multiple sexual partners in my past and I never had a problem giving those girls an orgasm, my girlfriend has also had multiple sexual partners in the past...

Debatable question: Why do friends want to influence their friends breaking up?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

6 August 2008 (M) - why do some friends influence their friends to break up especially when their friends are truly happy and in love is it because they are jealous and or envious of their friends new found happiness....

I like this guy, but he's leaving tomorrow! Should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Hiya! Thanks to everyone that answers! Okay, so I met this guy about two month ago at a café near here (he works there), and we got to talking one day. It just kind of built up from there… now when I go in, which is about three to four times a ...

My best-friend's 16 year old is in love with me, and I don't know what to do! What are my options?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

6 August 2008 (M) - My best friend that I know for almost 8yrs has his own family (wife, 2 sons, and 2 daughters) and his own business. His family loves me like I was part of them. He has always been an unique person that likes to have fun, so we as guys look at girls, ...

I'm dating an unsuccessful older man, but I ask myself, what could I possibly be attracted to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - I recently started dating an older, divorced man with two young children. I am a young career oriented sucessful women and he is a little less then ambitious older men. I ask myself what could i possibly be attracted to? Yes the sex is great but ...

How do I take things deeper in this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

6 August 2008 (M) - I've been seeing a girl in Spain for roughly 4 months. Things between us are quite sensational, physically, mentally...etc..its amazing. We're both in our 30's. The problem is, I don't know where we are at, in terms of commitment. I'm not sure ...

My boyfriend has jealousy issues. How can I get him to trust me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - ok i need help.. i have the perfect boyfriend and i really think i'm starting to fall in love with him. but he has a problem with me talking to guys and my exes. i mean i understand, i don't like him talking to other girls but i try not to let it ...

After a great night with him, he hasn't called me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - This guy I met on a thursday texted called asked to hang friday we finally did saturday and had an amazing time. he acted like he was really into me and went had fun laughed etc. nothing I can think went wrong. We went back to him place at the end ...

We are both virgins. How can I approach the topic of sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a year now and are in love. I'm starting to think about having sex, problem is, this is the first serious relationship I've been in, same with him, so we're both pretty shy. (We're nearly 18) I was just won...

Can love really heal emotionally distant men? Why do I have a tendence to be attracted to them?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - I just( realize something about myself. I fall for emotionally distant men. I am so attracted to the one that are hurting inside. I notice a pattern. I think my love for them will "help" them ease their pain. So I had flings with 2 of them th...

We broke up as he still had feelings for his ex and also depression problems, is he now acting TOO friendly or is it an impression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Seeing a guy a few months ago for around 1 month, he still had feelings for ex so we finished, he always said he did really like me but did not want to hurt me as he also has depression problems and did not want to let me down. Anyway, we wor...

Should I be worried about my boyfriend's trip?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Well I'll start by saying that my boyfriend and I have been together for almost four years and we've had our share of arguments, but we've both pretty much always been on the same page. It's a serious relationship and we're both aiming towards ...

I can't help but feel insecure and inadequate. I keep comparing myself to her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - There's this guy I've known for a long time. We were going to pursue a relationship. The problem is he has a high sex drive and I'm a virgin at 22. He's alot older and he's 28. The fact I'm a virgin - it's a issue to him. I want to take my time and ...

Please can someone help me get him out of my life?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Please please can someone help me. I am married and have been having an affair for 3 years with a man who is in a relationship. Both he and his partner tell me that it is sexless. The physical side of our relationship has always been very very good...

I hate being single and I have no experience of dating, please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - I'm a single teenager just finished high school and about to start college, and I hate being single but have no experience. How do I start off in the world of dating?...

I'm engaged but I find one of my male friends very sexy, Is this okay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - I'm 19 and I am in a very loving relationship that has lasted about 4 years almost, I'm engaged and very much in love with my fiancee. The problem is I find one of my male friends very attractive, and I dont know if is normal to find anyone else but ...

Did I fall in love with a slut without knowing it?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4137 days ago

6 August 2008 (M) - Alright, My girlfriend and I sort of met one night while we were both out drinking, we ended up having sex that night, either of us knew anything about each other really more than our names. Yes, a one night stand. We both were extremely dr...

He is really arrogant and shy at the same time, so how do I tell how he really feels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - okay i got this love problem. I have a thing going on with one of my male friends. All summer we flirted a lot, but he wasn't asking me out or anything. So one day we finally talked about us and he confessed me that he was really into me, that he...

We've known each other for so long- why the suddent interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Theres this guy who I have known for about 8 years as we used to go to school together. Recently he started chatting to me alot which he never did before. Hes been messaging me alot and talking to me pretty much every day. He asked me to the movies ...

I don't click with the guys who approach me... It's not commitment phobia, so what is it?

No replies yet: Be the first to answer!

6 August 2008 (F) - Ok i have a problem...i am 17 and about to be a freshman in college i have numerous of men trying to date me..from married men to men with plenty of children....but i also have some good men trying to date me, i enjoy talking to one guy in ...

I'm in love with my best friend... what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - okay so eya i know this guy right he spends a night at my house all thee time we talk all day bought our problems and stuff and he very attracitve and understanding and i love him so much but the thing is hes my best friend and if i tell him how i ...

Am I being played for a fool? Should I give up? Or really go for it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

6 August 2008 (M) - Hi I've got a bit of a problem with a certain girl and from what I've read on askmen.com I think you would be able to help. I know your a busy person, but I would be greatful if you could lend a helping hand. Basically I grew up with this ...

Do I have the 'grass is greener' syndrome here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - I am 30 and have been dating my boyfriend for 5 years. I love him I think but I have terrible 'grass is greener' syndrome. I cheat on him when I get the opportunity and I constantly think of my high school boyfriend with whom i split up with years ...

We broke up but I still love and want to get her a ring! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

6 August 2008 (M) - I promised my girlfriend at the time when we were still dating, to buy her a ring. We broke up but i still love her and she has feelings for me like that. Right now when I asked about 2 weeks ago, what would she do if I got her the ring? She said ...

Do I say the "L" Word or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Hello aunties and uncles, I've been dating my boyfriend (who doesn't label me his 'girlfriend' due to some 'commitment issues') for over a year and a half and I am realizing lately that I've been wanting to tell him that I love him. I find myself a...

I would still like some advice as to how I can reduce my urges to a minimum.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

6 August 2008 (M) - I'm 18 years old and i'm very much in love with my girlfriend, she means the world to me.. But i feel like my sexual urges are getting in the way and i don't want her to start thinking i'm something that i'm not. My urges aren't all that bad real...

Should I wait for this married woman I'm in love with, or what?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

6 August 2008 (M) - I am in love with a married woman and she is in love with me too. She doesn't want to be with her husband but she can't leave him cause she has raised his kids since they were born, which two of them are not really hers. What should i do? Wait...

He confessed that he got me pregnant on purpose and lied that he couldn't have kids ~ because he wanted us to stay together.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - Hello...I've been seeing a guy for about 3months. I was falling in love with him. He came at the right time in my life when i was ready for a real relationship. He was married for 7yrs and told me he couldn't have kids. He pressured me for sex ...

Does having a lot of sex affect the relationship or our love??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - I have been in a relation for above 2 years and also have sex relationship. I really wanted to know does having a lot of sex affect the relationship or our love?? If yes, what should be done to make the relationship strong?...

He's gone from being an incredibly motivated, funny, caring person to being the most selfish, angry person I know.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - A bit of history. My boyfriend and I have been together over 2 years. When we first met I was living with my former boyfriend who was an alcoholic. It was a very unhealthy relationship to put it mildly. My current boyfriend and I met and beca...

I know it's wrong, but I'm sleeping with both my boyfriend and his older brother!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

6 August 2008 (F) - right, im really just lookin for abit of advice, i already know what im doing is very very wrong and i do feel guilty about it.. im a 16 year old girl living in a small village in the uk, i went to an all girls school and as i live in a small plac...