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writes:I'm in a relationship for 2 years, but I'm starting to suspect my girlfriend is a nympho. What are all the signs I should look at to be sure?She has weird behaviours but I never caught her cheating.1. She enjoys inviting men to her apartment, that she said to me is just students or colleagues from school;2. When we have a fight she disappears the whole day and only comes at night. Sometimes she comes the next day or after sleeping in an hotel for 2 or 3 days;3. When we are together we have a lot of sex, but when we are apart we don't see each other for weeks and she doesn't care.4. She always flirts with men5. She enjoys going out alone and always finds excuses to do it (when we're together but I have work to do for example)6. She has her computer full of passwordshow can I know?What should I do to make her confess?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2011): the woman I was with never had any conversation other than sexual,she constsantly was looking to see who was giving her any attention,even when I was with her!.I realized that whenever she wanted to "get away", she would create a arguement out of nowhere, then leave overnight only to return with an attitude toward me.Constantly accusing me of being with someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks Miamine,The problem is everytime I break up with her she never gave up on me.I've stayed 3 months without answering her calls and emails and she came to my door by surprise (after I changed houses).And last time we broke up and I put her out of my house she decided to steal all the addresses and phone numbers I have of friends and family to catch me again.Why did she do this? What does she wants from me and why doesn't she let me go?
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (12 February 2011):
 She's got men at her house, she calls you from a man's phone, she always want's to be alone...
I don't think this woman wants to be with you. She sending you enough clues to finish the relationship and break up.
Again, don't know if she's a nymphomaniac. Everything she says could be true, or she could be working on the side as a prostitute.... one thing she definitely is, a very bad girlfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe is!
Yeasterday she was trying to call me and sending me kisses from a new skype number. I tracked that number and I found that belongs to another man.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (9 February 2011):
Don't know about nymphomaniac. A woman like that would wear you out, because she'd never get out of bed.
What you mention is strange behaviour for a woman in love. You don't need no other evidence, what you have said is enough.
You need to talk to her. She sounds either very independent (likes being on her own) or like a woman who is having an affair. Tell her you feel concerned, lonely and rejected. Tell her that she seems more interested in other men than you.
From your description it's hard to say what's going on. Don't think she's a nymphomaniac, that is a mental illness, and you would definitely have caught her having sex with someone else by now. Nymphomaniac's need for sex makes them irresponsible and reckless.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (9 February 2011):
 In my opinion, based on the posted behaviors, you have a bit of a "playgirl" as a girlfriend. She will not likely confess any infidelity in the relationship without evidence or getting caught outright, but one bit of evidence I have noticed in past cheating relationships is an undeniable "smell" of another man. If she had recently had a sexual encounter, you should be able to notice another man's "scent" about her, especially if it was recent and prior to bathing. Also, if she has recently given head to another man, the scent of his semen will be on her breath for hours.
On the other hand, you can just enjoy your turn with her and pray you don't catch anything, but I would back off from thinking that this gal is long-term girlfriend quality. Just my opinion based on your observations.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (8 February 2011):
 You do know a Nymphomaniac is someone who has a compulsion to have sex, right? What you describe could be an independent personality, or someone cheating on you, but that doesn't make them a nympho.
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