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She has feelings for another. how can I get over her, but not lose her as a friend?

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Question - (8 February 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 8 February 2011)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well to start me and my friend started to talking to this girl, he really didnt care while i fell pretty hard for her. Well she told me that she only had feelings for my friend who by the way broke her heart two days later. So since we r such good friends she comes crying to me, while i was still getting over her. So my question is there a way to get over her without losing her as a friend?

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A male reader, Capri2 Argentina +, writes (8 February 2011):

Why would you keep, a girl you want for girlfriend, as a friend? It's nonsense.

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (8 February 2011):

BrownWolf agony aunt

Look at it this way…It is better to find out now she has feelings for someone else, than let’s say 5 years down the road. You have really invested time, love, or have kids, marriage…and then…oops “I love someone esle.”

So…bad things happen for good reasons. Don’t feel for the here and now, you could be feeling a lot worse later on.

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