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writes:hi everyone,i've been with my boyfriend now for over a year and i really do love him so much and i do see a huge future for us and we've been through so much together.however, lately i've had an unwanted crush on someone from my college class its making me feel really panicky almost like i've brought these feelings on myself if that makes sense? i have been quite depressed recently so i'm not too sure whether that's a factor or not but i am truly happy with my boyfriend he's always there for me when i need him and i always have a great time with him. as for this "crush" he's a bit of a bully and has bullied one of my friends previously so the obvious pick is my boyfriend, so how do i get rid of these feelings? i talk to this crush every so often but no flirting or flirty gestures as i want to stay committed to my boyfriend only problem is i can't avoid him completley as he's in my class. i wouldn't see any future at all between me and my crush as i'm moving onto a different course soon in college and i will not be keeping contact with him. i'm really scared this will get worse, it just seems very random i have a crush and i feel like such a bad girlfriend and i've let my boyfriend down, i love him dearly.what can i do? :( xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have no intention of breaking up with my boyfriend as I know it is just a passing phase and I know if i break up with him i'll regret it as he means so much to me but this crush is just horrible, I wouldn't dream of cheating either. so think its best i just stay out of his way :)
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reader, df30  +, writes (9 February 2011):
Well I think thats part of human nature, don't cheat on your bf. If you really need to try to get with this guy tell your bf everything no matter what and break up with him first. I bet it would only be a temporary cure though, as goes the saying the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence.
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reader, anonymous105 +, writes (8 February 2011):
Its nothing to worry about. Continue avoiding him and it will fade
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