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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ok This guy and I have known each other for two years and have been dating for two months. I recently received an email from this woman that says they are together and have been trying to work things out. When I confronted him of course he denied everything and said he hates her and how she always tries to ruin his life. He lives in another state (which is a 6 hour drive)and dries here almost every weekend. She forwarded me an email from him calling me a lardass. I am over weight. I'm 5'5 and weigh 206. I know that it is big but why would he hurt me like that. Any advice is appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, ashley187 +, writes (9 February 2011):
 It's obvious he wants his cake and wants to eat it too. I wouldn't give him that kind of satisfaction. I would forget him and work on myself. Obviously you aren't happy with your weight. Work on that and when you are a healthier, happier you.. you'll be able to find someone worth your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2011): It's pretty simple really, he's playing you two against each other so he can continue seeing you both and presumably continue having sex with both of you too. He's only looking out for himself, he couldn't care less whether he hurts you or not so long as he continues to get his way. Weight has nothing to do with it.
My advice to you is to leave him and find someone who actually cares for and respects you.
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