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*avidrugby
writes:Alright so I recently got a girlfriend and she tells me she likes me a LOT. And her friends say that she likes me more than her ex. But I heard something really concerning today.So she's given me oral once...but like hasn't done anything since and its been 2 weeks. It wasn't even an issue until my friend goes "oh yeah she would give head to her ex alll the time". Wtf? She didn't even like him that much I guess but would go give him head and other shit whenever he wanted? I mean I don't ask blatently ask for it like he did because I feel like that would put her down a bit. I'm really nice and respectful to her, but definitely not over powering with niceness.She also won't let me do anything to her like oral or anything. Its really confusing because in the first two weeks she gave me head, and now she won't do anything but kiss. I don't know what to think, and my friends said "maybe she likes you too much to do that" which is complete bull. I need some help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): Maybe the "reliable sources" you go the info from are not very reliable...
You need to talk to her about your relationship and how sex fits into it. If she's only open for kissing, then that's that. if she's into more advanced play, discuss her desires and see what you can work out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): well if you respect her than you wouldn't care if she gave you oral i mean in the 2wks she already gave you head whow thats quick!? don't worry about she likes you alot she doesn't want 2 rush into things you respect her she probally doesn't want a sex relationship more emotion.
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