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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi..there's a guy I like, he's like 6 years older than me. When we first met, he said he got an ex and his ex cheated on him for another guy. Now we've been like meeting outside and having lunch and I really like him and he looks like he's interested either(I could be wrong)..and he knows I like him. When I asked him "are we friends like real friends?" (I didn't even mention the word "gf") then he said like "he takes me as a sis and he got a girlfriend (maybe they got back together) and he got a big social network and so this kinda meeting is just simple thing and bla bla bla"..I was kinda hurt but put a straight face and said "yeah..this is nothing..someday we're gonna be disconnected and move on with our own lives..etc" then he looked blushed and really looked like don't wanna chat anymore and said could we take off now and he even almost forgot to say "bye". If he took me only as a sis, then why should he act like that? He should have replied like "yeah..this is what life's about" ? Now I'm really confused and I don't wanna lose him but I won't go for him as he said that he got a gf...but I'm still confused :(...plz what should I do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks a lot for the replies!! but there's no hope for me??? i can get him out of my mind when i'm working but after that he would just come right into my head..so confusing..there were times he really wanted to chat with me (but i can accept that he doesn't like me..and yet can't i be just fris and keep the friendship)..now he doesn't even call me anymore..though i sent him SMS and even an email saying that i wanna be just his fri..but still there's no reply...should i call him??? would that make me look bad?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2011): he enjoys you liking him,thats all.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (21 February 2011):
He seems to be playing with you. Which I don't reckon is a good thing for you. And you will be hurt sooner or later. Better move on.
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