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26-29,
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writes:Okay well theres this guy that i really like, and for all intensive purposes we can say his name is Romeo. So anyways he like me, and i like him, a lot, but he doesnt want to go out because he doesnt want to be in relationships because "they cause too much drama". Only he doesnt know that i would be soo good to him.. I can't imagine not trying to be a couple so what should i do ? Reply to this Question
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 February 2011):
 Honey, take his statement with a pinch of salt, it needs a bit of translation.
When he says that relationships bring too much drama, don't waste your time quoting him examples of happy couples that lived harmoniously together for 50 years, because it' not that he is against relationships in general, he is against having a relationship for himself.
What he says means: I am just a kid, I want to have fun, I don't want responsibilities and obligations, most of all I don't want monogamy and being stuck with one girl.I want to see what's out there.
Sad for you- but I think it would be pointless for you tryng to change his mind, at his age he's not a monster if he thinks this way.
If you can only see yourself as part of a couple, you need
a different kind of guy, with a different personality.
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