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writes:Hi therequestion for you girls.If a girl ask a guy when was your last relationship and the guy replies he never had one why would the girl get scared off and not give that person a chance?The worst thing as well if she asked the guy if he is a virgin and he answered yes then she won;t be interested at all.though he is very nice and friendly why do women shun away from that guy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2011): What I find interesting is that many girls want an experienced guy even when they are not so experienced themselves.If it was men doing that, then we would call it what it is. It's a double standard.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (21 February 2011):
 Well, you need to take what I say with a bit of logic added. It's no rule, and Im not saying all virgins are bad in bed. But they are known to lack skills, and for a woman who is interested in sex, a virgin might not be what she wants!
But really, virgins can be great partners in the sack, it all depends on them as a person. And a person with experience might be horrible. But the chances are a virgin will not be as good as a man with experience... That was the logic of it. There are of course exceptions. Don't shoot the messenger, Im just saying what the general consensus is.
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reader, Capri2  +, writes (21 February 2011):
@chigirl: "And virgins are known to not be good in bed." A lot of people around here will be willing to start your fans club. :)
If you happen to be the guy in this situation. I will add that these girls could think being over 26 and without a relationship in the past means that you are pretty bad at it.
As for virgin guys, a lot of girls think that a virgin guy will only date them for having sex and then dump them.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (21 February 2011):
That guy is you, right?
Those women didn't really know you, did they? They were women you talked to and perhaps were getting to know, they weren't friends of yours of girls you've known for ages. These women might not have been looking for a relationship, perhaps they wanted only sex.
Or it could be that they don't want to get involved with someone inexperienced. It is a lot of hard work for the person who has to "teach" the other how to be in a grown-up relationship. It requires a lot of patience. Even I told myself I would not again enter a relationship with someone who's never been in a serious relationship before. And virgins are known to not be good in bed.
But, things change. When you meet a woman who genuinely likes you for you, your relationship history, or virginity, won't matter as much. They will be a part of you, and a part she will love just as much as everything else.
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