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Is it wrong of me to continue my affair with my first cousin?

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Question - (12 February 2011) 7 Answers - (Newest, 22 February 2011)
A female United States age 18-21, *carleet52 writes:

I am currently having an affair with my first cousin. We love each other enormously even though we haven't been together for too long. We have a big age difference. But to us that doesn't matter. For my part I would do anything to be with him and I know he would too. We're obviously keeping this a secret and to me it has become very frustrating. I would really like some advice since I know I can't really go to any family members or friends without being judged.

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A male reader, kelvin1357 United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2011):

Is that your first date? If so, you are wrong. You haven't seen the right person or real love. Try to meet with other men.

If he is not your first date, tell your mom and plan for a marriage.

HTH

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A male reader, Capri2 Argentina +, writes (14 February 2011):

Well, you'll to tell your family about it. Failing to do so will lead you to some problems. You will have to deal with the fact that your family must know about this. They will possibly try to stop you.

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A female reader, scarleet52 United States +, writes (13 February 2011):

scarleet52 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

My question is how can I keep this going and do things the right way. I plan to go live to where he is now. But in a few yrs perhaps 2. But dnt knw if its a good idea since no one knws and by moving away it'll be suspicious

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A male reader, Capri2 Argentina +, writes (13 February 2011):

That's great. If you won't break up with him. What's your question? Why do you want to know if it's wrong? Having a relationship with your cousin is considered incest in some cultures only. I don't see any problem.

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A female reader, scarleet52 United States +, writes (13 February 2011):

scarleet52 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I won't end my relationship with him I love him like I havnt loved anyone before.

I'm 17 he's 36

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011):

well,love is a hard thing to keep secret from people like family and close friends,

but they may react bad to you dating your first cousin !

i think you should either tell them and just take watever they say too you or end it with you cousin

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A male reader, Capri2 Argentina +, writes (12 February 2011):

How old are you both?

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