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*lovecarl
writes:I'm 4 months pregnant my boyfriend wants me to have an abortion and I don't want to. Me and him have been fighting over it every night.When I first told him I was pregnant he was happy but now he doesn't want it. He said when his child is born he's gonna kill it ! I don't wanna leave him he's so cute but I'm really scared.
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (13 February 2011):
 Of course he is scared. He is facing 18 years of child support. Right now he seems willing to do anything to avoid that. He is trying to bully you into saving him from that fate. He really should have thought about the consequences before he got involved sexually.
You be careful, desperate people do desperate things.
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reader, Rose22  +, writes (13 February 2011):
 in my book, someone who is scared does not threaten to kill their unborn child? i what country does it make it right to say such things to a pregnant women? you can try to talk to him, but if he does not relent then the safest thing you can do for yourself and your child is leave.please be safe!redrosexxx
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reader, Ilovecarl +, writes (13 February 2011):
Ilovecarl is verified as being by the original poster of the question I think he's just scared he's never had a kid before I haven't either I'll talk to him about it tonight . See if he'll calm down . He needs too !
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reader, Rose22 +, writes (12 February 2011):
i really think its time to get ou of this relationship! im scared for you and i think evreryone who reads this would be! this is a serious thing for him to say to you and should not be taken as a joke.
you need to get out of this now! move yourself far away from this man! this your un born child he is threatning. if you choos to keep the child who knows what he could do to you. leave him now and never ever come back to him, if need be get that restraining order. do it now!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2011): You need to get out of that situation ASAP! If he is saying he is going to kill his baby then who know what he will do to you ither before or after the baby is born! This sounds like a very dangerous man and you need to protect yourself and your baby!!! No man is that cute to lose your life over!
GET OUT NOW!!! he's a douch!
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (12 February 2011):
In the most serious way, you need to be told this. I hope you are just scared enough to listen.
Get an attorney. Get a restraining order. Run and hide. Do not spend another night with this person. Your life is in danger. This is not cute, this is abuse and he is too young to have restraint.
I'm serious as a heart attack.
FA
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reader, DakotaFleming +, writes (12 February 2011):
Get away from him.Dont have an abortion.He threatened to kill your baby so Id report him to the cops .
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reader, shnookims  +, writes (12 February 2011):
 "He said when his child is born he's gonna kill it ! I don't wanna leave him he's so cute but I'm really scared."
Sorry but seriously?! I don't mean to sound harsh but come on! He's threatening the life of your unborn child...even if it's a joke to him, it's completely messed up! There's a life inside of you now, you are going to have a baby! it's time to put on some grown up panties and decide what you want to do and where you want to go with your life! perhaps find someone who's going to love you, accept you have a child and respect that and maybe have more to them than the fact that they're cute!
This is harsh but your in a harsh reality and you have someone else to consider now, other than yourself. good luck.
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