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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am now 20 years old and started dating my girlfriend about 3 years ago. during the first year or so of our dating we has sex on a regular basis for the most part with no less than twice a week, anytime anywhere, it was fun and we were happy and getting a long quite well.as of late ( the last two years ) maybe 10 times all together and i feel she only does it out of guilt because i bring it up. she used to be the one to come on to me but now its all me, and i would say 75 percent of the time we dont even get to the having sex part because she says she already reached her climax when we were just messin around and after that she is tired and rolls over and goes to sleep, honestly this is frustrating because there i am left with a situation if you know what i mean shes sound asleep. when i bring it up in a conversation she either says she doesnt wanna talk about it right now or changed the subject to something like she doesnt feel well she has even told me she has no sex drive what so ever anymore but she says she loves me and talks about us getting married so im a little bit confused if this is a normal 20 year old females sex drive?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 February 2011):
 Ok well everyone is different but if she is only 20 then she really shouldnt be losing her sex drive without a reason behind it. I guess there must be something that is causing her not to want to have sex. Could she be stressed out with anything in her life? Maybe she has gained some weight and doesnt feel up to having sex. There must be some underlying reason why she has no sex drive and maybe she is embarressed to tell you.
I guess the only option is to try and talk to her again and get her to open up to you. If she doesnt then maybe suggest that she goes and talks to a councellor as there must be something wrong here if she is not wanting to have sex. I understand that you are frustrated and after all the pyhsical side of the relationship is a very important one. Therefore I really think it is time she gets help.
Goodluck and hope everything works out for you.
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