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writes:Hi, I'm 19 and live in South Kent. My boyfriends 25 and lives in london, and because he lives quite far away from me we hardlt ever get to see each other, maybe once a month if im lucky. The thing is, I really, really like him, but he doesn't seem to even remember that I exist most of the time. He only ever answers a select few of my texts and emails and when he does he doest so hours or days later. He's really great to me when we're actually together, but when we're not, he treats me like im just a nobody. And its really getting me down. Should I end it? :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): P.S. if you only see him once a month and he takes long to answer you, he is not your boyfriend.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2011): Do not end it, but move on that's much more empowering. When he stops getting the attention, he will likely check into the situation. When he does, make sure you take a few days to respond to him and when you do, do not give any details of your life just stick to the subject of his communication ...e.g., "Where have you been haven't heard from you?"response "Have been busy." Nothing more.response -- "can I see you (insert day/time)?"your response "Sorry, have plans then. Am free (insert at least four days from his request) ...."You will see him come running. When he does decide if he's worth it.
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