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anonymous
writes:So I have been seeing this guy for a month. Things were great. He's really nice always wanted to see me and spend time with me. So two nights ago I asked to hang out, he had already made plans but asked me to hang out the following night. Well the next day rolls around..I texted him around lunch time to let him know when I was getting off work. Never got a reply. 5 hours later I texted him again....thinking he might have just overlooked the last text. No reply. So when I got off I called. No answer. 5 mins later I get this text from him. "Look I got some stuff going on. We will try again another night. Im sorry. Evverything is ok. Just got some stuff to straigthen out." I texted back and said hope everything is alright. Talk to you later. I haven't heard from him since. I don't know whether he is really trying to straighten some issues out or just blowing me off. Please help!
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reader, Esme7655 +, writes (12 February 2011):
Hmm. Just a month? Make your own plans, looks like he's busy, and not as interested as you are, or he could just need a breather, sometimes guys freak out and sorta *disappear* I don't know where they go. But if he comes back, don't make a big deal out of it. You've only just been together a month. If it was 6? I would then say freak out. Otherwise, enjoy the alone time, call your friends relax :)
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reader, Lisa206 +, writes (12 February 2011):
 Write a nice farewell text stating you have enjoyed your time with him but you are moving on.
Let him know that you are here for him and if he ever needs someone to talk to, call or txt.
really, are you prepared to hang on every time he has "stuff going on" or an issue? nothing like sitting and waiting and feeling stupid. men are horrible at communicating but when your gut says "wrong" listen to it.
see what happens and let us know
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