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30-35,
*ompleatly confused
writes:I'm out at school and everyones completely cool with it , by there is a girl I have liked for like two years now it's heartbreaking seeing her with guys that just continuously screw her over and break her heart, I know I would never do that , but I can't I know she's straight never going to happen. we used to be bestfriends and I told her everything and trusted her and now we have drifted apart ,I still love her but I know I need to get over her I don't know how? is it ever possible to stop loving her I just want to be her friend again but is this a bad move if she knows I love her ?just very confused , what do I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Illithid  +, writes (28 December 2010):
 It's absolutely possible to stop loving someone, but usually that requires time apart. If you keep seeing her, talking to her, being around her, that keeps your thoughts on her. You may need to be away from her for a while if you can't just force yourself to move on.
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (28 December 2010):
 hi
friendships are so important and nice for us to have. but i think that maybe when you are in love with someone secretly or you love them but they dont love you back would make a close friendship a bit difficult, for instance, you might be told things by her about other guys that you dont wanna hear, or get to see her with other guys a lot coz you're in a close social circle with her. i would think just remain very casual friends and maybe in time when your feelings have settled down a bit or maybe you get interested in other girls, you can become a closer friend with her.
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