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Is he interested in me? Her?

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Question - (28 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2011)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

the other day my brother went on a roadtrip, he'll be gone for a week. his friend (who I am really in to) came to say bye and what not. as his buddy (A) was leaving a friend told him that he could still come over and hang out with me, teach me to play cod if he wanted. he said something along the lines of "I will" and 2 hrs later he showed up with his ps3. he stayed here for 5hrs teaching me to play, and my friend (a different one than the one who said he could come over) a little too. while she was playing he didn't say much. when she was done he asked me 3 times if I wanted to play, just kept looking at me and smiling. I gave in. he kept saying when to shoot, or when to throw a grenade etc. when I laughed at myself he did too. he kept saying he was tired, but waited till I had finished playing before he left (he wanted to watch me?)

we had been talking and I said something about being weird, he said I wasn't the only one, so I said "you won't judge me then?" and he said "never" but he proceeded to say he would judge my friend teasing. though he has said he doesn't like her much before.

my friend talks a lot, and whenever she would talk he would look at her. when I talked he only looked at me a little.

though, when he was sitting he was leaning towards me 90% of the time, his back was against my foot. when he was done playing he'd turn so he was facing me with he back to her, and was looking at me sometimes and piling his wrappers a few inches away from my foot (I was in a recliner he was on the floor). he then took the garbage (in a toblerone box) and shoved it in my friends shirt. she whipped it at him. he caught it and set it by me. I took it and stuck it on the brim of his hat; he reached up, felt it, and then just left it there. after a few minutes it slid off and he whipped it at my friend.

whenever my friend left the room he would immediately start talking to me.

so my question is, what's his deal?! why is he so nice to me and so mean to her? he's actually a real sweet somewhat shy guy, so it's not like the things he does are him being an a**. does he like her? or me? maybe neither... ?

my friend also made a comment about letting me touch his boob, and he never said no, he just said "you'd like that, wouldn't you?" to her.

it seems like he pays so much more attention to her than me, but he's nice to me and mean to her. what is his deal?!

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A female reader, petina1 United Kingdom +, writes (12 January 2011):

petina1 agony auntJust a guess. He feels more comfortable messing about with her because the one he really is interested in is you and he's a bit shy with you. That's what I think anyway.

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