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Is her friend holding her back?

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Question - (28 December 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 January 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hello i need some advice on what to do i have wrote before about my girlfriend calling me controlling and manipulative, thats the reason she left. anyway she got into a relationship with another girl and it didnt work out, now she wants to come back, the problem is that her friend that caused us problems called and needs a place to stay.

well my girlfriend called and talked to her and said something about coming back and she told her she didnt want her here, that we was getting along fine without her here and the last few weeks she has been making comments about she could be content here with me. i mean we do go out and do things as friends. i dont have feelings for her other than being friends. i am lost on what to do here, i do love my girlfriend very much and want her back but i think her friend is holding her back. What do you think?

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (12 January 2011):

dirtball agony auntI think your whole question is confusing the shit out of me. When talking about multiple different women, you should not have sentences where the only descriptors are her and she. It's incredibly difficult to follow.

Also, she's not your girlfriend. She's your ex girlfriend. Big difference.

Is it possible her friend is holding her back? Yup. She's being a good friend by trying to save her friend the heartache she knows your ex will go through again if you two get back together. History will repeat itself. It always does.

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