I want to pursue her even tho I have a girlfriend...

A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My girlfriend and I live together, but I am seriously falling for someone else. I wrote before about this situation early on when I was questioning about meeting "the one" when you are involved with someone else. We have this mutual friend (who by the way is married, but has an incredible crush on the same woman), I was talking to him about how I can't stop thinking about this woman. He told me that she has also talked about me in the same way. He even joked about how he will kill me if I get to have sex with her because he has wanted to for years. Yes, I want to have sex with her. Not because she is beautiful (which she is), but because I am completely attracted to her mind as well. I am not sure how I go about this-- and most would say I shouldn't since I have a GF. But I think I have to have sex with her just to get it over with to determine if there is more there for us.

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