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writes:hi, i hav a question n im really confused here i hav a boyfriend im 30 yrs old hes 42 yrs old, we' ve been seeing each other for 7 yrs but six months ago he told me he was leaving out of state for work....so ok he left everything is good till i start getting unknown txt msgs frm someone a guy saying he knows me that im beautiful n he would like to go out with me....then starts asking if i hav a bf n if i love him then all of a sudden the msgs stopped they were constantly coming in....time passed by then bf came back everything was good again till his cousin told me those txt msgs was my bf all along....but yet he him self has not told me....my question why in the world he do this....what did he want? any answer would help with this confusion thats driving me nuts. thanks so much...
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reader, Princess Aunty  +, writes (23 December 2010):
Well maybe he wanted to see if you still love him though he was away. And by asking if you would like to go out with him, your bf wanted to see if you was not cheating on him while he was away. hope that helps. please rate
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reader, pixiegirls +, writes (23 December 2010):
 If the texts really were from your boyfriend, it would appear that he has some insecurity issues since he moved out of state. He may feel that with his move, and being away from you, that you might become bored and look elsewhere for companionship. I would imagine he wouldn't tell you the texts were from him since he would be embarassed by doing something somewhat juvenile. Depending on if you replied or not, and what you responded with, he may also be confused.
When you see your boyfriend next, sit down and talk about the fears and problems that may arise, or already have, as a result of his move to another state. Were future plans discussed? Leaving someone in limbo about where the relationship stands only leads to jealousy and insecurity.
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