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*unkgirl14
writes:okay so i have 3 classes with one of my closest guy friends..we talk about literaly everything.. even about sex for ex. when he went and got his physical.. he says he got "raped"..it was funny but we literaly do talk about anything and he doesnt have a phone so we cant text but he calls me at my dads sometimes on the weekends and i think im getting a huge crush on him.. i will never date him because of one flaw.. his ex gf is one of my closest friends and i will never date any of there ex bf's or bf's.. because that would hurt them.. but im just wondering.. if i knew for a fact that he liked me.. then what should i do.. date him and not tell anyone?
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reader, MorgieMoo  +, writes (22 December 2010):
You really would be playing a very dangerous game!
Friendship is one of the most valuable things you will find in life. Take it from someone who knows, it will destroy your friendship and it will be painful! You can't hide a relationship from the world because if that's the case they it isn't a relationship. A relationship is between two people that are completely comfortable with each other (meaning they are open with eachother and don't hide the fact that they are together). Friends are important. Don't take them for granted.
Good luck, Moo. x
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reader, Sex_counsellor +, writes (22 December 2010):
 Very dangerous game - The question is: are you willing to sacrifice your friendship for this guy? My advice, at your age friends last, relationships don't tend to. I would stay well away from this guy.
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reader, amicalus  +, writes (22 December 2010):
 i want to answer to your qst, don't date him. i think friendship is the best human feeling. is just my opinion.
good luck
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