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writes:Hiya,I am good friends with a work colleague for the last year and a half. A group of about 8 of us hang out a lot and are all very tight. Bermuda can be an odd spot so us ex-pats stay together. A few months ago this friend and I started to spend a lot more time together. We are neighbours so walked and hung out watching tv and chatting almost every night of the week. Anywho, I had never thought of her as anything other than a great friend. I should mention that she is cute, hot, beautioful and sexy at the same time. lol Anywho, feeling clicked for me and I told her. She was surprised, and to make a long story short, said she just wanted to be friends.I have been doing ok, but think I need time alone. She has a male friend in for the week and I am pretty sure they are are shagging. This should not bother me but it really does.I just want to be friends and not feel jealous. Since we are all in the same tight circle of friends I can;t just avoid here.frustrating.....
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (24 December 2010):
 oh dear! do you miss hanging out with her as a close friend? if so i think you should just carry on being mates the same as always and just ignore any embarrassment you might feel about the rejection. she probably feels as bad as you do at the moment about this. this will subside in time if you just carry on being normal. do you feel like you could talk to her about it just to put it to rest and then get on with life? i hope you find someone who you like in the future and who likes you the same way
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