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*ISSY151
writes:Well i have a problem with this guy... well it started in eighth grade.(now in tenth) I had told him that i liked him, and he had said that he liked me back but when he asked me out i said no because i was scared and he would be my first boyfriend, Then he left to go to new jersey... for a year, and i was left single for eternity. We had continued to have contact when he was away, and how he wanted a long distance relationship, i told him no again, Well now he is back at the school here, and he has a gf and i want him, i think i have grown up enough to choke back fear and ask him out, but i still cant, i am sixteen going on seventeen and i have never been kissed, He keeps on flirting me staring at me breasts and touching me, but he has a gf. Should i tell him to back off, or should i ask him what the hell is going on. I would like him to be my bf, but i am to scared to tell him... Help mee please,, any advice is needed.. maybe even about i was going to ask him to kiss me.. before i turn seventeen.. what do you think?
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reader, Tizzie0612 +, writes (12 December 2010):
 naw just leave him alone. i mean yes he is a cheat if he has a GF and is touching you. basically it sounds like he jst wants to sleep with you. its best not to engage in any contact with him and detach your feelings for him.
i mean think about yout..you dont want to have a bf who will probably do the same thing to another girl.Also, put yourself in his girlfriends shoes..do you really want that out of a man?
Its ok to be single..someone will find you. what i learned in life is ..its not the one that you like but the one that likes you and wants to make you happy.just be patient and a man will come girl.trust!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 December 2010):
You've still got a bit of growing to do, I think. You do seem mature, but I think there is still a lack of experience that is blinding you to a very obvious problem.
- He's a cheat.
He has a girlfriend, yet there he is touching you. And the thing you need to learn now, rather than later, is that you can never, every trust a cheat. Especially a teenage cheat, because as many people can tell you, there is nothing crueller than a teenage boy who just wants to put notches on his bedpost.
If he was a decent guy, if he was that good, he would have dumped her first and then come to you. Instead, he's cheating on her and using you. And you're allowing it.
Tell him to clear off, and don't bother with him. Save your first kiss for a guy who won't then go home and kiss his girlfriend.
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