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Why did this girl come to me and not my Casanova friend?

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Question - (12 December 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 12 December 2010)
A male South Africa age 26-29, *mr conflicted1 writes:

Hi, recently i met a girl, but man was it easy! This has never hapend to me ever! She came to me and started flirting with me, it was as if she was instantly attracted to me when i walked in the room, she approached me! The thing is im good looking but i have bad vampire teeth, and i dont even ever get girls to like me even when i try, they usualy go for my casanova friend! Do you have any idea how i got this atractive girl to come to me and not my friend, this could change the way i see woman and maybe even my life! I think it has something to do with my friend, cause ive been hanging out with him recently and maybe i have subconciously picked up something, like body language or something? Any idea on how i pulled this off?

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A male reader, meestal Netherlands +, writes (12 December 2010):

Hey man, ever thought about it this way:

You may be better looking than you think you are, wittier, more interesting, more confident too!

Enjoy the fruits of your newfound powers!

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A female reader, Cheryl23 United Kingdom +, writes (12 December 2010):

You are very young and in time as both women and men get older and become more mature, looks do not pay such an important role as they did when you are a teenager. You may have found your own confidence by spending time with your friend and picked up on certain skills of his etc and are using them without realising. The girl who caame to you must have noticed you for a reason and not just what you looked like, I wouldnt worry about your teeth and as you get older you will become more confident and appreciate yourself more.

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (12 December 2010):

chigirl agony auntYou are young, and you will see as you grow older that there are many sorts of women as well as men, out there. In the teenage years most are afraid to be themselves and talk to whomever they like because they all have a need to be like the others. So that could be the reason you haven't been approached before, that perhaps you were stranded in a position where you pulled back and didn't really express yourself either etc, or who knows why you haven't been approached before. Sometimes it's just random. Then this girl probably just thought you looked cool or nice or whatever and wanted to talk to you, and so she had the courage to do what she wanted without checking what everyone else would expect.

Thats just my theory. As you grow older you will without a doubt have more women approach you, because as people mature we get to know each other on different premises. And you might have picked up some people skills from your friend as well, which is only positive.

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