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writes:So I have some guy friends I hang out with. For privacy, I'll call them Boy A, Boy B, and Boy C.Boy A: He's pretty much said straight out that he likes me, but I don't like him more than a friend. How do I tell him that?Boy B: I sort of like him, but he hangs out a lot with this other girl. He flirts with me a bit, but I think he's just a player. Once, he snuck up on me, wrapped his arms around my shoulders for a moment, laughed when I freaked out, and then left to go talk to the other girl I mentioned above. We were alone once, though, and he complained about her, saying she was sometimes annoying. Does he like me?Boy C: I kinda like him too, but he's sending really mixed signals. Like we were sitting on the couch with some of my other friends and we were squashed together. He could've moved over a bit, but he didn't even try to. His arm kept brushing mine, too. So I took all of this as a good sign and rested my head on his shoulder. He didn't push me off, but he was like "What are you doing?" Not in a "I think you're creepy" voice, but more like he was just curious or something. Afterwards, he disappeared. I think he was avoiding me. Was I too bold? Maybe he doesn't like me that way?If you could help me on anything above, I'd really appreciate it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2010): boy a is who I would chose
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 A: You tell him EXACTLY that you see him as a friend and that's how you'll always see him.
B: No, he doesn't like you.
C: He might like you. Who knows? Why don't you ask him, so you can be sure? But, before you do that, do you like him as "more than a friend"?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (13 December 2010):
 Boy A: Just be straight with him, explain to him that you care deeply about him as a friend and that you will always love him as a friend, if he says he wants more, then tell him you wouldnt want to ruin your friendship by going out with him.
Boy B: Its hard to tell if he likes you, you havent wrote anything in your query to make me think that he does like you. He might very well be a player therefore you need to be careful with him and look to see how he reacts around other girls.
Boy C: Hmm again a tricky one, obviously you putting your head on his shoulder caught him by surprise and he may have avoided you afterwards because he was embarressed by asking you what you were doing. Guys can be funny he may like you but just freaked out a little bit. However yet again there are no sure signs that he does like you.
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