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writes:Been involved for past 6-8 years with male partner with sex as the only reason for us meeting or communicating. He is more than willing to meet with me anytime at my request. This male is NOT married (confirmed)or in any other type of commited relationship (prefers being single. Confused if this can be termed a Booty call situation at this point. DO they last this long or would emotional involvement tend to contribute to the duration? Your thoughts please.
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reader, rivi +, writes (13 December 2010):
Not sure what the point of your question is.
He's not stopping you meeting other men.
Only you can decide whether these no strings attached sex meets give you something you want . (How good / frequent is the sex ? Are you having sex with any other men ?)
If they do then continue the meets [ I'm assuming condoms are a permanent feature of the sex ].
If they don't then stop the meets (ever so politely ).
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reader, kirra07  +, writes (12 December 2010):
For it to have lasted this long and sex being the only reason for meeting or even talking, then yeah, I would call it a booty call situation. If you don't do anything outside of have sex together, then I wouldn't even term it friends with benefits. Normally, I would say no they don't tend to last that long. Usually over time, you become somewhat friends, or it's more intermittent as one or the other person has a relationship with someone else, so it stops for awhile. Or ends altogether.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): Sounds like a friendship with benefits to me. He has no reason to cut off your meetings as long as you are willing to continue them! The duration you speak of is due to the fact that you're offering him free, no-strings-attached sex and like most straight, single guys, he has no reason to decline. You have to decide if you're okay with remaining his booty call, because from what you've described, that's about all your connection with him seems to be. Good luck :)
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reader, Tizzie0612 +, writes (12 December 2010):
 maybe not..he says he prefers to be single and when you look at it its for the exact reason he meets up with you. Eventually he ll stop if you catch feelings somewhere along the line and if he catches feelings..which has little probablity..then it might be a question of whether or not yall can work that out.
overall though, its a 50 50 chance someone catches feelings during the duration of this "Booty Call" relationship.its just a matter of how attached one another get along the line is all...
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): Well, if it's only for sex then i would say you were f**k buddies. Why do you ask?
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