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writes:Im only 16 my boyfriend treats me really bad he pushes me screams and does all kinds of things. I try to breakup with him but then im afraid because when i do then he gets more mad and hits me. He then feels sorry and wants me to not to be mad. I tell him that i need to let all my anger out but he doesn´t understand me. I dont know what to do i feel i love him but then i know i dont deserve that. He tells me that i treat him bad because my family is better off financially than his. But thats not the case! I need help he has tried suicide when ive broken ip with him. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to all those who have replied.
To stickman: I know that i can.t deal with it alone and i really dont want to tell y dad because i know what my dad could do. I have friends yes, but they wont do anything to him because they´re afraid of him.
dmartin89: no I dont´t go to school with him he dropped out im in independent studies but that just doesn´t mean that i im not around him all the time.
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reader, stickman  +, writes (13 December 2010):
Im just repeating what youve already seen here, but you MUST get out of this. If he touches you, get the cops involved. There is no excuse for hitting a woman. He's a weak, selfish person, and he will not change. Its a power trip for him, so he needs to be knocked down a few notches. Do you have an older brother, or a good friends older brother you can talk to? I guarantee they will take care of it for you. You may not be able to handle this by yourself, so get some help. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2010): sorry, but you cant stop it, and hes always going to be that way. he will be like that for the rest of his life most likely, and he will always put his hands on you. you need to leave before he gets worse
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reader, Geester  +, writes (12 December 2010):
 Cuming from a woman who knows from my own experiences of a abusive partner he isnt gunna change hun they neva do yr still young u shud b out their enjoyin your life hes always gunna b sorry til the nexttime hes bullyin u in2 stayin using threats 2 harm himself hes dominating u huni u want walk while u still can if u decide 2 stay tell him 2 seek help 4 his moodswings
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 December 2010):
You stop it by dumping him. That's it. Tell your family what is happening, get support and get away from him.
And don't let the suicide thing get to you either. Yes, there are many people who are suicidal. But this guy sounds more like an attention seeker to me. What he does when you've broken up is his choice, and his alone. Don't be blackmailed. End it with him, and just get away from him.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (12 December 2010):
 Talk to your parents and ask them to help you out. If he gets abusive when you break up with him and hits you you should tell him while you are together with someone else, and not while you are alone with him.
Whatever HE then decides to do is HIS actions caused by HIM alone. Not you. If he attempts suicide again it is NOT your fault, he is responsible for his own actions, and he should seek out help. You could try and contact his family to let them know he is suicidal, and that you are concerned for him now that you area leaving him. But your responsibility for him does not stretch further than that!
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (12 December 2010):
 The key word here is "tried".
Hes tried to commit suicide; if he had wanted to die, he would have done it properly, he just wanted sympathy and attention.
You have tried to break up with him.
You need to DO IT.
There is no excuse for his behaviour.
Male the decision to get your life back on track, break up with him. Are you at school with him? Tell your most trusted teacher about how your ex boyfriend treats you and make sure you arnt around him on your own.
Its important that you dont break up with him face to face, you dont want him hurting you.
A person doesnt treat a person they love like he treats you.
Gdt out of this asap.
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