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writes:Ok so i need some ideas and was wondering if anyone can help. I am away at college and will be going home for Christmas and was wondering what i should do or give to the love of my life. We have been together as a couple for only five months but have known each other for ten years and have been best friends before we became a couple i wanted to do something as a surprise that was sweet and a little romantic to celebrate and make up for lost time since by Christmas we will have gone three months with out seeing each any ideas would be great.
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reader, Omegahero09 +, writes (10 September 2009):
 You're in a great position right now, because you really have the opportunity to spark things up a notch. Guys like surprises (or at least I do anyways), so just know that whatever you do, it will be good.
First thing you need to figure out, is how much time do you have. If you have a weekend, go with what Softouch said and hit a cabin. Explore something new together.
But what I absolutely recommend is do something physically active first together. Be it, minigolf, or something more casual like attend a sports event or see an in-town comedian. If it's snowy out where you are, even better. Eat lunch, have a picnic. Something simple.
Then after that (especially if it was more active), I recommend something more slow. Something more intimate and creative, and private. You are a young woman, I'm sure you'll think of something. In either case, make it an occasion to remember and something to talk about in your future with him.
Good luck! ^^
-Hero
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reader, softtouchmale2003 +, writes (9 September 2009):
 It all depends on what kind of surprise you want to give him.
One of the best things in a relationship is discovering and experiencing something new together. Perhaps there's something he's wanted to do and you could maybe put that in action for him.
Or at least, get him fired up over it. When you discover new things out there in the world, it sparks a passion, and passion gets taken into the relationship and expresses itself all over the place.
For instance, if he's ever wanted to go on a boat with you, or go to a cabin in the woods, you could try and arrange something like that for the two of you. Then exploit the discovery together and have a wonderful time as a couple.
Little surprises do things too. Its not always that Hugo Boss watch or some other thing but the things which are meaningful to him.
Since you know what he likes best, then that would be a starting point.
It may very well be that there's something he loves to do, and you've never tried it with him. For example if he likes playing some sport, you might want to try learning to play it with him. Some people do that, and it sparks the passion there.
But what I see is you're looking to get him all excited and make this holiday special and so doing that is the key to making it romantic.
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