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writes:How can you tell if someone likes you online? As in over MSN or something? This one guy starts a convo with me within first 10 mins every single time he signs in. Sometimes straight away. And he's always asking me about myself, and seems to want to keep the conversation going all the time. As well as other little things. I'd just like to hear your opinions. And just to add, I do know this guy in real life. He's not some guy I met over the web. Cheers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2009): He likes you enough to speak to you on the net. The rest remains to be seen. See how it goes and see if he suggests meeting.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (9 September 2009):
 Well, here is my question: how does he act towards you in person? It certainly sounds like he's interested in getting to know you and it sounds probable that he might like you. But, it could be that he's lonely or that he just loves chatting online. Not to burst your bubble, but there's always that possibility. So in person do you chat, does he smile at you, do you get that vibe? And online, does he seem flirty or just friendly?
Sounds possible, sweetness!! Keep up the chatting and maybe make a move and turn up the flirting notch or just ask him if he wants to hang out in person! Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2009): Hi
Glad that you have met him. Phew, a load off my chest! Okay, so he keeps asking you about yourself, but does he tell you about himself too? A man who doesn't divulge any info about himself is too secretive for my tastes, also, I would wonder abt his intentions, what he has to hide etc. And before you think that he likes you and stuff, how interesting are your convos? Are they healthy debates, or witty repartees or something? Just how are you etc are no basis to decide someone's interest level. If you two share details of your lives, your problems, and other things that are important, then maybe you have something.
Do you feel comfortable around him? Have discussed how your days went? Do you feel close to him... as in he tells you stuff and you guys share lots?
IF yes, then yeah, maybe the two of you have something. ANd if not, and if you really want to, then try getting closer with him. You are young and at 16, romance seems exquisite. But, from one woman to another, the only relationships worth having are with men that let you be yourself, and who make you a part of their life.
There can be many reasons for his interest, like too much free time, or he is on the rebound or looking for some sex and thinks this is a good way to get some...
But, before you take him seriously, and decide to go further, just analyse the convos you have.
Good Luck
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