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writes:welll couple years ago i start flirting with my first cousin..but now i just want to get over her because i think i'm falling in love with her.. she live next to me so you imagine how often i saw her and every time i saw her i just want to be with her.but i know that this is wrong and i really want to get over it but i just can't stop thinking of her please tell me what sould i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): I agree with the female who said to get a girl friend it will help a lot. Think about a girl yoou have a stable relationship right now and ask them out to the movies or invite her over to hang out at your house. Spend the summer with her and don't even think about your cousin either. Your going to want to get with someone now before school ends. And make sure that you like them because you want this relationship to last a while, at least until school starts or longer than that maybe something will come from this relationship or maybe not but the goal is to keep your self ocuppied.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): You say it's wrong - but is it? It all depends on which state you live in as to whether the law allows cousin relationships or not. You can get the full rundown on your particular situation from this site:
http://www.cousincouples.com/
Have a good read of it and follow the links to find out where you stand legally.
I've lived very happily with my first cousin for the best part of ten years now (it's legal here) and from my own experience I can thoroughly recommend it.
It might be an idea to find out if she looks at you the same way as you look at her though. Tread carefully.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): I would try and get a girlfriend who you really like and spend alot of time with her. Find someone that you can go out and have lots of fun with and maybe it will push your cousin out of your head with thoughts of a new girl.
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