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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now. I fully trusted him... he could go where ever he wanted, do whatever, and talk to whoever because I believed he would always be true to me. Then he began to mention a girl he had been talking to at work in conversation. I wondered if I would get a chance to meet and become friends with her, or even just know who she is. However, he would shy away from the subject, which for me is strange beceause he never has had any problems hanging out with any of his friends with me around. Then one morning when I got home from work I got a little curious... To my surprise he has been inviting the girl to our home while I was working all night, calling her from work *even though he is "too busy to call me"*, and "missed flirting with her." What do I need to do??
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice, everyone. I really appreciated it. I confronted him and he said they were just "friends." However, he told me that if it upsets me to hang out w/ her, then he would not talk to her again. Of course she called him the next day, and I answered the phone for him (he was not around to answer it anyways). Now he keeps receiving calls from an "Unknown" caller, I have a good guess who it is. Oh, well. Once again, thank you everyone.
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reader, louise100  +, writes (6 May 2009):
He should not be asking this girl to your place on their own when you are out. It seems a very odd thing to do.
I would confront him with your evedence and see how he reacts but my intuition tells me that he is up to something no good.
Sorry hun - I hope I'm wrong
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2009): Being a guy I have tons of women that I flirt with on a regular basis. I've been married for 20 years but I have never ever spent time alone with a female friend like that. It just wouldn't feel right to me. I wouldn't put myself in that situation. I almost guarantee they are up to something.
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reader, bellaaddison +, writes (5 May 2009):
Tell him that you were born with what we call "women's intuition" and that right now yours is screaming "UH-OH!!". Tell him you expect honesty and want an explanation. The bottom line is that you're entitled to know the truth, what you do when you hear it- is entirely up to you! Don't be surprised to hear that what you "think" is going on, truly is. I'm 40, I can tell you my intuition has never let me down...
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