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writes:Afternoon Aunts and Uncles.I'm finding myself in a strange situation.I'm seeing a girl its fairly new. Infact we've had about a 5 dates, and if anyone asked i would have to answer we have not reached the stage of Girlfriend and boyfriend. We get on very well and the last few dates have ended with a little kiss.And the end of the date, I ask her if she would like to do it again. Apparently according to my flate mates (all girls), this is bad timing as it makes it hard for her to say no? Really does it.Secondly I'm meant to act like i'm not interested which in turn will make her act more interested? Which in itself doesnt make sense. I mean what if shes acting less interested to make me more interested?Surley the point of dating is to get to know the other person and hopefully so that they start to like you.So why is it a bad Idea, after say 5 dates to tell the other person "Hey I fancy you". Isnt that the point of the dates.So which is exactlly what i've done? Not in those words. So have I made some massive mistake and broken some kind of un written rules that my flatmates seem to know off by heart. Surley everyone likes finding out someone likes them?
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reader, higrob24 +, writes (19 May 2009):
higrob24 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWhile I rated all your answers as great.
You were all wrong. It was a bad idea. Go figure. Apparently people dont like it. Well at least not this particular person. Oh well.
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