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writes:I need to know what to do next in a potential relationship. (I am in uni btw)It has taken me a while to realise how much she really does like me.We met five months ago and have been meeting semi-regularly or regularly for nearly 4 months.I wouldn't say in my view we have had a "proper date" most of the time just coffee.She clearly enjoyed my company, and I did sort of ask her out for lunch and a walk, though she did not accept (nor did she refuse). Since then though we have been for a walk together, and walk and lunch.She has been to my room in halls of residence once for me to play some music, and then we went for a coffee. She actually then asked if I were free the next day and that is when we went for a walk and lunch.Most recently, I had been planning sort of day out, but the weathe forecast was poor and I cancelled before she had given me a decision. Nonetheless we met, and she actually went to the trouble of finding somewhere quiet for us to meet. After that she actually invited me to her place for lunch and cooked for me.It is now exam time so we might not see each other much and I will be going home soon thereafter. I want to do something with her before going home that is more of a proper date, and was contemplating asking her for dinner.Is that appropriate at this stage?My gut tells me she likes me, she makes remarks that hint at it, and some of the things she has done suggest she does. Yet there are one or two things that almost suggest otherwise.What should be the next step?And what could I suggest besides dinner? Is that a bit too much for a first "proper date"? Reply to this Question
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reader, dobro +, writes (3 June 2009):
dobro is verified as being by the original poster of the question We went for dinner. I enjoyed it. I am not sure yet what is going to happen now, especially now it is summer.
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reader, dobro +, writes (18 May 2009):
dobro is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know I need to relax :) I am an on edge person a lot apparently.But you know you this a particularly big deal :)
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reader, Lilly Rose  +, writes (18 May 2009):
 Take her to cinema, go for a meal, go for coffee, or if the weather good a lil picnic, if she likes you she wont care what you do just being out with you is enough hun!
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reader, dobro +, writes (18 May 2009):
dobro is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOK what sort of thing? :)
There just isn't a lot I can think of really. There is not a lot to do here in this town that I can think of at least in the time frame (I finish exams 3rd June go home 4th or 5th so that means we would go out 3rd or fourth). But maybe some suggestions would help.
We are both students if that helps, but neither of us like partying and she is near as makes no difference tee-total and I don't really like doing anything involving alcohol.
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reader, Lilly Rose +, writes (18 May 2009):
Ask her out for dinner or cinema, see how it goes don't put to much pressure onto things, have fun then by the end your then know wether there will be a next date! Good luck!
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