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I told him I like him but he has a girlfriend

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Question - (18 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *asHisGirl writes:

Well i have liked this boy for about ages now and i finally told him ( over msn lol ) and he said he sorta likes me aswell but he has a girlfriend and when my bestmatee said to him why dont you dump your girlfriend and go out with louise he said no becuz he loves his girlfriend and i dont want to break them up or anything but im so confussed !

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A female reader, WasHisGirl United Kingdom +, writes (27 May 2009):

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WasHisGirl agony auntyou say try and leave it butt it isnt that easy he's the first boy i have eva felt this way about and i forgot to mention i have been out with him before about 6months ago we went out for about a moth or two then he broke up with me "/ and then the story carries on from there :/

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A female reader, Lilly Rose United Kingdom +, writes (18 May 2009):

Lilly Rose agony auntWell if you tell someone you like them, there not just guna break up with there current girlfriend, there needs to be more to it, if you really like this guy then carry on talking to him, and if his feelings grow for you then yes maybe he will dump his gf and be with you, but if hes not that keen on you then i suggest you just bee friends.....and maybe in future he might be single then you can have another go! Plenty of men about so dont let it get you to down!

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A female reader, Scarlettxx Ireland +, writes (18 May 2009):

Scarlettxx agony auntI'm afraid your best bet is to leave this one. I was in a really similar situation except I got involved with the guy & it all ended badly. He didn't leave his girlfriend like he said, they rarely do. Guess who ended up getting hurt? Me. Situations like these don't often end up like a fairytale because one of more of the parties will end up getting hurt & usually it's the girl who fell for the guy with the girlfriend.

I know you like him & you said yourself that you don't want to break them up so just let it be. You'll end up causing yourself more heartache if you try to pursue it.

Just leave it, see how things pan out & don't get your hopes up. I know that's not what you want to hear but it's just the way it is. You're only young like myself, get out there & have fun, the right guy will come along someday & you'll have forgotten all about this guy!

Good luck :)

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