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writes:I have a boyfriend who is relatively new. We get along great, and I have a lot of fun with him. Also our relationship has a lot of passion in it. But I have realized that passion is only temporary, and I'm starting to think What's going to happen down the road? I'm not in love with him, and I doubt that I'll ever fall in love with him, but just appreciate him. I know this for a fact, because I'm in love with someone else. This someone else is my well, now ex-teacher. I've lost count as to how many times I've tried getting over this man. I've loved this man for almost four years now. He was everything to me, and helped me get through the rough patches in my life. We had such great chemistry, we really connected. I have yet to find a connection like that with someone. Well, I don't even see this man anymore because my high school closed down due to poor lack of enrolment. This teacher moved away to God knows where, and the only form of contact I have with him is his phone number. I want to call him just to say hello, and see if that connection is still there between us. What am I saying?! That connection doesn't mean anything! He's married, and has a kid. For some reason, I've convinced myself that he loves me back. Part of me is sure that he doesn't. It's just that there were times when he showed that he loved me. So I guess he did some of the convincing too. And I know for sure that if this teacher ever did come back all of my feelings for him would just rush back to me.Should I call him? It's just that I'm afraid to and I don't know why. Please help me on this situation if you can. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2009): Call the guy, you'll feel better if you admit your feelings. and dump the other guy if u don't feel its gonna go anywhere
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reader, Jason means Healer  +, writes (23 March 2009):
If you can have this amounts of variety for these two men, then there could also be a third; or more...
The teachers wrong because of various factors and the other guy you're not so keen on.
If I can give you some advice;
I'm not doubting that you was or are in love with this guy.
But the amount we know that we can fall in love to is limited to the amount we have fallen in love to so far for everybody, always.
So, leave a light on in your heart and perhaps your knight in shining armour will come riding along and you'll taste of an even more deeper and meaningfull love, sweetie...
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