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22-25,
anonymous
writes:Me and my girlfriend have been together for 6 months and have a healthy sex life. Just recently I've wanted to find more ways to pleasure her and one being eating/licking her out. She has had a few male previous sex partners, one being who she let do this to her but I have tried twice now and she hasn't let me. I asked her why and she told me because she didn't enjoy it before. It could be different with me though? And what was so special about this guy she let do it to her? Does that mean she loved him more than she does me?
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (23 March 2009):
 She has told you even with the other guy she didn't like it, your reading way too much into this she may have let him do this to her just to see if she likes it and discovered she doesnt thats all does not imply in any shape or form she loves you less why should she?
Not every woman that wants licked out and if she is expressing to you she does not like it take that as a no then, find other ways to pleasure her ask what she does like.
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reader, bethevans + ♥, writes (23 March 2009):
 No, it doesn't mean that .. maybe she's just bieng truthful maybe she doesn't like itt .. in time people get used to things if she's only done it once before.. there's still time maybe one day she'll be in the mood :) just say to her .. i wouldn't dare force u into anything hun but whenever you're ready can you just tell me ? .. hope it worked x
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (23 March 2009):
 It doesn't mean she loved the guy more than she loves you, it means that at that point she didn't know it wasn't her thing, and you only find out stuff like that through trial and error.
You're right though, it might be different with you. What didn't she like about it before? Communicate, communicate! People quite often get hung-up about talking about sex, I have never really understood why - I mean, you're doing it with someone, why can't you talk about it over coffee the next day? Oh well.
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