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writes:I met this boy about a year ago in the summer, when I went back down South to see my old friends. He's a friend's friend, and we hit it off straight away. It's just a friendship, he was basically in love with the friend that introduced us.After a while, our friends started to think we liked each other, because I have to admit, we did kind of act like a couple. But he was like a big brother to me, literally. I'm so tiny and he's so tall, he made me feel safe and comfortable. I always denied it, laughing and saying 'Nah, we're just friends.'. I'm not sure what he said to the question, nobody ever brought it up when we were together.Anyway, I went back home, and a few months later he stopped liking my friend, I think. He doesn't talk to her anymore, doesn't talk about her, or anything like that. I think he's moved on.I lost contact with him for ages, I used to ask around my friends about how he was and it was always the same vague 'Oh he's fine.'.A few months ago I added him on MSN, and we used to talk for hours at a time into the early hours of the morning, even if we had school the next day. He used to stay up with me when I couldn't sleep (I have mild insomnia.) and everything like that. Then all of a sudden, he stopped talking to me. We hadn't fell out, and I hadn't done anything to make him mad at me. I pushed it aside, figuring he'd talk to me when he wanted, I didn't want to seem pushy. Recently I had a dream that involved him, nothing steamy. It included me running up to him, hugging him and nothing else. There was an atmosphere in the dream, or rather, when I woke up, that made me feel weird. It almost made me feel like I liked him. Later that night I asked him on MSN why we never talked anymore, and he replied 'i don't know.' then I proceeded to ask, 'are you still my friend?' and he said 'yes' and when I asked if he wanted to talk to me he replied, 'Idk.' so I said, 'Ok..tell me when you want to talk?' (still not wanting to seem pushy and clingy) and he told me he would. It's been a few weeks since then, and he still hasn't said one thing to me. My other friends that know him won't tell me why he's not talking to me saying 'It doesn't matter.'I guess what I really want to know is why this guy has all of a sudden stopped talking to me, and why my friends and himself won't tell me why?Thanks :) xx
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (24 March 2009):
 He most likely is involved with someone else at the moment. Maybe nobody wants to hurt your feelings by telling you, you kind of make it clear you think of him as more than just a friend, you know.
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