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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I kissed a guy at work but he got a bit turned on, well very turned on so I pulled away as I kinda got the feeling he wanted more than a kiss and a feel, he keeps suggesting we should do it again, but I just don't know what to do as I am very inexperienced and he is the opposite, I really like him but he just wants a bit of fun (I suppose a bit on the side). My friends all say I should use him to gain experience but I am woried that I will end up making a fool of myself or getting to attached but he is the first bloke ever that I have been attracted to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): If you worry about things and withhold yourself from experiences, then you will never learn new things and you will never gain further experiences. Life is not always about learning things on the same level. Life is a massive playground that you have the opportunity to pick and choose how you want to learn to live.
This man is a 'teacher' and you are a 'student'. Simply put: just go with the flow. There is no point in holding back. Keyword is: communication.
Being worried about making a fool of yourself is very unnecessary and redundant when it comes to learning, experiencing and furthering a connection.
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