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writes:im having problems with my boyfriend. im trying so hard to change for him and he still doesn't see it. when ever i try to talk to him he takes my words in a wrong way and he thinks im complaining to him. i want to make things good again because i really love him but i dont know what to do. please help me Reply to this Question
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reader, Cowboy254 +, writes (11 March 2009):
Try to use words like this is awesome or this is really fun just try to use positive words in a positive action I hope that's good advice it's all I got
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reader, audie  +, writes (10 March 2009):
 if he doesnt apreciate who u really are then you need to take a step back and really think about this. you need to find some1 who does coz that relationship isnt healthy. its not going to get better coz watever u do he's neva going to accept you- either for who u are or who you are trying to be. you are always going to feel inadequate either way. he's not worth it so girl cut your losses and move on!
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reader, bttrcpbrklyn1314 +, writes (10 March 2009):
 It sounds like in order to change for him you would have to change who you are...if that's the case then maybe you should rethink the situation. No one should change who they are unless they have a personal problem that is unhealthy like alcoholism for example. Honestly I think he is playing games and is looking for a way out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): you should never have to change for anyone. unless it's like a bad habit or something.
if you are just trying to change who you are for him then it will never work...because it's not really you. you won't be happy and will never please him.
why/what are you trying to change for him?
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